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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel neglected in this "unofficial" LDR

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This unofficial relationship is driving me crazy! Here it goes, the guy and I live 4 1/2 hours away from each other. We divided soon, we want to get serious. I had sex with a man while we weren't really "talking" and he got upset. We promised after that we wouldn't have sexual ... (202 words)

Does he deserve a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - We dated for a two years it was great until the last 6 months. He started to mistreat me such as not wanting to hang out with me and talk down to me. I broke up with him and went no contact for four months. He recently sent me flowers apologized and asked for a second chance. ... (114 words)

Her dating our friend's brother on the sly seems like a betrayal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So, this is not necessarily about me. It is about my best friends Elen and Leila. Leila and I have been close for four years, and then we met Elen, and have all three been close for 3 years. I've even stayed with Leila and her family for a couple of months when my family was ... (378 words)

Venting to my friends leaves trouble behind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently noticed that I tend to cause unnecessary drama in my relationships and I don't know how to fix it. When I'm in a relationship and we argue or bicker about simple mundane things I tend to go around and tell my friends what happens. By doing this they always tend ... (152 words)

I stood him up twice due to anxiety and now I don't know how to fix things

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was supposed to go on a date with this absolutely amazing guy and I told him I couldn't make it... This was only because I suffer from anxiety issues and the thought of going on a dare with him prettified me. I know I'm always ok once I'm on the date but the fear overtook ... (188 words)

Unplanned pregnancy after 1 month of dating and my baby's father isn't staying in regular contact with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 28 years old and pregnant for the first time. The pregnany was unplanned and came as a shock as it happened exactly after a month that me and this guy had started dating. I was living in a muslim country and since I was unmarried I had no option but to leave. I left... (469 words)

Boyfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me out of the blue and I'm feeling lost

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were together over 3 years. 2 weeks ago he told me that he has nothing to offer me. He called himself a pathetic piece of shit that can't get off his ass and take care of stuff that needs to be taken care of. He said that he wants to take me out and do so ... (293 words)

Why would my Facebook friend make this comment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - I am in my 40s and the question I want to ask is not actually a love question but I am querying a comment someone put to me on facebook. A friend posted about cheap travel on facebook and I replied about how cheaply I had travelled as well and they replied with 'Yeah exact... (154 words)

Tired of my boyfriend's crap!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Not sure where else to post this but hoping for some advice. My boyfriend, who is 34, and I have been living together for 3 years and I have asked him to clean up after himself in the bathroom many times. Specifically, he sits on the toilet in such a way as to manage to get... (293 words)

She has a boyfriend, so why does she keep telling me I'm sweet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

19 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Women are very confusing to me My friend has been telling me I'm very sweet lately when we talk or text. Last time I texted her , she told me I'm sweet like 4 times. I know she is going through a tough time but still. She talks to me when I'm going through a tough time w... (220 words)

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i have been dating for a year now,we hav been living in the same compound up until last month. She relocated in another town,my problem is that sometimes when we hav a phone conversation and i start talking about her kising me through the phone she refuse... (115 words)

Comfort zone or a rut?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Over the years, I have put up a bit of a wall to a lot of things that could lead to growth. I am the confident guy (that I know I can be) that has avoided certain people that I want to get to know or a general crowd. I have shut myself off from the people that can challenge me ... (286 words)

He's so rigid that he won't accommodate things I want to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years and I am having a few issues with the way he acts towards the things I like. Basically, we are very different and have totally different tastes. Mine are quite varied, whereas he likes one style of movie, one style... (461 words)

I want to marry a female and have children but I am a gay male.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

19 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to marry a female and have children but I am a gay male. Please help. ... (24 words)

What should I do to avoid making the biggest mistake of my life ???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 6 years and I have the best husband in the world but I recently met someone ! We are very close friends but somehow I am attracted to him ! I feel like he is the perfect match for him ! He is married too but I know he is interested in me ! I know this is ... (80 words)

Should I Break Up With Him for Seeming Distracted? Why Doesn't He Make Me Feel Special Anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. Since about October last year, I feel like he's not been as soppy and stuff and it makes me feel as if he's losing interest. I told him how I felt, he made a valid point by saying that I should know how he feels about me and ... (372 words)

After 4 years our relationship is not progressing and I'm not sure its worth it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi cupids! I'm looking for some advice please. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now and we've been having a few issues with the fact we barely see each other. It's a maximum of twice a week and only ever for an hour or two at a time. I've tried telling hi... (355 words)

I don't like how I feel around former crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone ever had a similar awkward situation like this?.. I've known this attractive charismatic guy over 5 years. Our conversations started off warm and friendly. I once asked him his name when I ran into him at a store. I will admit to having grown a crush on him ove... (278 words)

What in the hell does my daughter want from this boy who won't get a job?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid my daughter is 21 years old she graduated got a job and now is pregnant with her first child.The father of this child is a deadbeat he won't work he takes her money and FoodStamps trading them in for money to buy drugs .My daughter and I got in a heated argument... (158 words)

Oral sex doesn't make him hard?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - why cant my man get hard even when he is down eating me ?... (14 words)

Is the girl in the pics his girlfriend or his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was so attracted to guy i met at the mall,he told me he don't have a girlfriend. when i check with his friends they said the same thing. he showed me a picture of a girl and said she was his ex girlfriend and they are not together. he asked me to call him but when i call h... (157 words)

My girlfriend storms out after an argument instead of talking it through

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. When my girlfriend and I fight, she stays so mad for so long, and I don't know how to deal with it. We had a fight last night that somehow caused her to drive off mad. We didn't speak for 24 hours, til I called her tonight. I tried to talk it out, ... (227 words)

Does anyone know how to control their emotions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone know how to control their emotions? I find that I get overly emotional a lot. And the majority of the time I don't know why. I cry a lot. Whether I'm angry, sad, hurt, or just plain frustrated. But for some reason I can't control my tears. They come whet... (280 words)

How do I learn to relax around him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

19 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So im trying one last time to save my family ny cool child's dad is single and so am I... but ive.been.putting my foot in my mouth often sending king emotional text, calling but losing my words which make awkward silence.. I've been annoying him... just a pathetic nervous ... (99 words)