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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to just spend time with my boyfriend and not do other things. I know this isn't healthy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So I'm in a relatively new relationship. Met him in May, began dating in August and have officially been in a relationship since November. Here's the thing I completely adore him! I was with my ex for 6 years and during the majority of that relationship I thought I was happy ... (183 words)

I read my boyfriend's journal didn't like what I read but now I want to read it again!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm usually not a snoop, I trusted my boyfriend when we were together, but I did something I'm ashamed of. I read his journal, and I didn't like what I read. It basically said his was unhappy with our relationship among other things, but nothing about cheating. Enough to make ... (163 words)

Things aren't the way they used to be with my boyfriend. Should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8 months. When him and I first met and first got into a relationship, things were great. He made a lot of effort to talk with me and to hang out, we spent a lot of time together, and he just seemed really happy. Now the '... (428 words)

Does my coach like me or am I just being stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im 17 years old, im very confused because of my Taekwondo coach behaviour towards me. Firstly I catch him staring quite a lot when im teaching someone or he sometimes stay near to me, and then help when I've done something wrong, this is no problem I just don't understand ... (207 words)

Would you consider this emotionally cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm posting on here about my friends behaviour with my other friend who's a guy. I introduced them a while back and she and him had a fling, not so long ago, but it ended cause he got a girlfriend. However, even though he's now with someone new, they still keep in touch and ... (242 words)

I'm confused ! everytime I tell him about a guy he get mad & not talk to me for days !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i've a littel problem that i Really wanna share... So, i've known this guy since september at the day of his birthday, he send me a friend request on facebook and ince that we became closer and closer, he is the rock, he saved me a lot of times before, to be honest i... (181 words)

My girlfriend's parents despise me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my current girlfriend for almost 3 years now. I know this is the girl I want to marry, but I'm also big on family, and her's has been giving me the cold shoulder. For some background: her family just consists of her, her parents and sister. No aunts, uncles, etc. ... (370 words)

I think I'd be happier with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - About 4 months ago now I ended my relationship with a girl who I really liked, as I didn't feel ready for a relationship at that point, but it affected me more than I thought it would and I can't go a day without thinking about her and regretting it. I wish I'd never have done ... (131 words)

Trying to get a balance between working and spending time with my health-challenged grandparents

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I'm 25 with a stressful job and a relationship that's all over the place. My family are very important to me, especially my grandparents as they pretty much brought me up from the age of six months old for my parents to go back to work. I enjoyed ever... (504 words)

Never had a girlfriend, unsure of her orientation, but really want to start a conversation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! This post isn’t about a problem, I’m just asking for general advice. I’m a twenty year-old college student whom recently ‘came out’ as gay. I’ve never had a girlfriend. That didn’t bother me too much because there was no one in particular that I was attracted to. And ... (314 words)

I don't want to risk my feelings until I figure out his game

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. My situation is as follows... I have liked this guy for a while and I think it's the first time I've really really liked someone. During this time we have always been flirty, but he got into a relationship about 2 months ago that went really wrong. During t... (397 words)

I'm happy to be practical but I don't want to insult him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I offer to let him use the diamond from my previous marriage? I know my boyfriend plans to propose, probably sometime this year. Neither of us make a lot of money. I still have my wedding/engagement rings from my first marriage (only because I haven't bothered to do a... (165 words)

How do I cope with strong attraction to a co-worker who I have no intention of getting involved with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need some advice on how to deal with a situation. Firstly I am 23 and do not intend to act on my feelings. So I have fallen for a guy I work with. He seems a lovely, genuine guy and I very much enjoy working with him. To paint a picture of me I am quite a flirtatious... (506 words)

Facebook is causing problems in my relationship, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Through out the years, I have had a lot of bad experiences with Facebook so I deleted mine a long time ago. My boyfriend has been using his again lately. The reason this upsets me is because he has been talking to some of his female friends on there. He has some of his ex's on ... (304 words)

Confused about my boyfriend's intentions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend, our relationship started before 5 months, I never new him, we met on the whatsapp. He proposed me within 6 days, without any meeting, now we just met at once in 5 months and had sex 1 time. Till now he didn't proposed for marriage, he told me that we will mai... (112 words)

Intimacy in the relationship has declined. Is it the beginning of the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Will this relationship work? I feel his feelings for me are over. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, 4 of those years we were happy I remember him being in love with me. During our 4th year I got pregnant with a baby girl, now she is 1 year but it's been a v... (464 words)

In love with a woman who's in a relationship and it's driving me crazy. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

29 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello to all, I have a problem and I could need some advice. Can't talk with anyone around me about this problem.... Eight months ago I added an old classmate on Facebook. We started chatting on Facebook. She is in a relationship (7 years). We met in real life and fell in lo... (194 words)

I want to talk about the distance that seems to have come between us, but I don't want to seem needy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I began talking to him in August. as the months passed, we grew closer until he asked me to be his gf in December. Since we live in different states, he flew me out to spend a week with him. it turned out great. I got to know him, and I fell for him more. there were a few ... (337 words)

Going back and forth on my decision to break up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. In that period I have cheated on him 3 times, 1 being a one night thing, 2 lasting longer than that. My last affair has been in the last few weeks, and I started to lose feelings for my boyfriend. I ended my relationship, but I don't ... (181 words)

If he loves me why can't he say the words? Should I talk to him about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. He's absolutely wonderful and we spend as much time as possible together. I sleep over 4-5 times a week. Pretty much been playing house. Clean house, home cooked meals etc. but besides that we genuinely have fun together. We go out. ... (246 words)

I know I'm just being jealous and my friend is just having fun but I feel like I'm being cheated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Last night my friend and I went out on the town, I dressed up, put on a nice dress, did my makeup properly and for once made an effort. My friend came out in jeans and a t-shirt. She's put her boyfriend back in the dating zone (he still loves her)and they're now more like ... (398 words)

How do I ask her out and what should I wear on the first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 January 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - This us a very short question. Okay I have been seen this girl for 1 month now he haven't met yet we speak everyday non stop, she's great a lovely caring girl I like her a lot, I am going to ask her out in person when we meet. What do I wear and how do I ask her out? I want ... (75 words)

How normal is anxiety in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried that my anxiety isn't the 'normal' everyday anxiety. This is because when it comes to relationships, I freak very easily, for example, I've seen this guy twice so far and tonight he wants to go out again. I'm currently feeling very sick and really tearful, wanting ... (177 words)

We're not together anymore but we still act like a couple and have sex... it's starting to get to me. Advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Last month my boyfriend decided that we "take a break" (or in other words: break up) and we've been together for maybe more than three years, but we've known each other much longer than that because we originally were best friends. Him and I have been together since freshman... (505 words)

How can I overcome my shyness so I can start initiating contact with women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, a bit of a lengthy question here. So I am a 22 year old male with 1 year left of college and I have never dated or even kissed a girl. I hadn't really started to think about this until recently, after seeing a number of my friends getting into new relationships whether it ... (289 words)

How much value should I put on something my boyfriend said in his sleep?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend was mumbling in his sleep the other night and he said: "no I don't want to get engaged!" Now I know I'm probably being silly but do you think that's how he actually feels? Wish fulfilment and all that. He has expressed that we will get engaged/ married 'soon'. ... (64 words)

Should people in a relationship discuss their sexual past? I'm uncomfortable hearing about boyfriend's past.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 January 2014 (?) age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I had a question and I hope you can answer. If you are in a relationship with someone, is it alright to ask about their sexual past? My boyfriend was telling me about the women he has been with and it made me a little uneasy. He was a bit promiscuous when... (96 words)

Husband corresponding with his ex despite agreeing that he wouldn't. Need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my husband is still corresponding with his ex. I feel so betrayed because I thought he finally understood how I felt about him talking to her and for the simple fact that he assured me that he wouldn't talk to her for respect of our marriage. But I found 2 ... (160 words)

Dating a man for 2 months - should I ask him if we're in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age - Hello, Have a quick question, I have dated a man for about two months. He texts me good morning everyday and we talk on the phone 1-2 hours on average a day. We also text a little during the day. He also canceled his online dating account from where we met, I did the sa... (154 words)

Uncomfortable with ex putting naked photos of our son on Facebook. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question concerning my ex, and our child. Hi Aunts and Uncle's, thank you for reading this, I hope to find some help. My ex and I are on good terms..kind of. We have a two y/o son and he has a 2 y/o daughter. My issue is, I'm so uncomfortable with him putting... (111 words)

He acts like he likes me but says he doesn't. Was he lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I think he lied to me. I have known this guy for about 4 years, and we had to spend a bit of time together for work. Anyway, so he is naturally flirty, all the girls like him, and I do too, he's a bit cocky to be honest, and knows he's hot. Anyway so I don't want to get i... (318 words)

I'm worried about my friend being lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (?) age 51-59 - Hi all, Lately I have been very busy but I have a new man in my life. He is so nice to me and attentive. He tells me he loves me and misses me every day. I recently put some space between me and my guy friend because he has some anxiety and mental problems. My boyfriend says ... (479 words)

Is he interested in me or does he only like me as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

29 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy a few weeks ago. We clicked because we are both majoring in music and we both are passionate about art and enjoy deep conversations. I love how intelligent and creative he is and he's open about his feelings and that's refreshing to me. We text every night un... (250 words)