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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think my man is having his cake and eating it too. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone I've never been on hear before so using it as a friend told me to so kind of now how it works.. anyway ive been with this guy for around 4 yrs meet him on a dating website he moved in with me and my lg in June and its been great but my real problem is hes moved... (404 words)

I don't fit in with my stepfather's family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4007 days ago

1 January 2014 (?) age 22-25 - about two years ago, my mother got married to this nice man whom i like, and i call him dad. but my new step cousins r so rude. they say things and make fun of my facial hair, which i dont even have! as well as the children, this one aunt, is being so embarrassing! the othe... (148 words)

Was I being manipulated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age - Hi, I just want to ask for some ideas about something that happened last year. It was one of the most shameful episodes of my life but am haunted by a question about it. I was really depressed over 'unrequited feelings'to do with a guy and ended up in a shabby arrangeme... (580 words)

How do you know if you're a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really like to share my story here and get the honest opinions of other people. Thank you all so much. How do you know if you're a rebound? I am 20 and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for a little over 6 months. When I first met this guy, he was ab... (466 words)

Can't get this man out of my mind. .Will I ever be able to get him out of my mind??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help - for the last four years I have been on and off with a guy whom I am in love with. I feel that it is going nowhere however due to many reasons (lies/trust issues Etc) hence why we have been on and off. I really want to move on but I cannot stop lovi... (98 words)

I feel very sorry. But feel if I were to admit what I've done, it would blow up. What are my options to move forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've done something really silly and need advice. My boyfriend and I went to one of her really well off friend's house parties the other night and I got really really drunk. Recently I've been waking up the realisation I have a bit of an alcohol problem and believe me, I am... (403 words)

Is this guy's behaviour normal? Though sex did not take place - twice he has tried to have sex, when I've been asleep, but his actions woke me each time, before it went further.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had a sleepover at my boyfriend's. A few months back we lost our virginity to each other. While we have regular sex, I found it weird that he tried to have sex with me when I was sleeping. It did not happen once but twice during the night and I was awoken by his a... (95 words)

Is my boyfriend a miser?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend met my family for the first time last week and we all went out to lunch. I was embarrassed because at the end of the meal, he didn't even offer to pick up the tab. Is that a red flag? My family did notice it and commented on it later. I'm terribly embarrassed. ... (55 words)

I'm meeting my ex so she can get closure from our breakup but its making me very uncomfortable

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I never thought I'd resort to asking online, but I realize what I really need is an outsider's perspective on the situation. I'm bisexual, btw. Basically, this summer I started going out with a woman and although it was fun in the beginning, when I went back to u... (1551 words)

Troubled relationship with my daughter leaves me feeling very blue

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have what most Mum's would regard as a great relationship with my daughter. She lives a five hour train journey away, visits maybe twice a year. For financial and other reasons I've not been able to visit her this year, but usually I would and intend to next year. Her... (1635 words)

LDR and we are ready for marriage, but who moves where?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a Long Distance relationship that seems to have worked so great until now that we are trying to make the next move into marriage. Neither one of us wants to relocate. When we met the talks of relocation was easy. Now he is very much established in the UK and im very ... (180 words)

I want to ask her to be more than friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

1 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - What's the best way to tell a girl you like them more than friends? Any suggestions like how to express in words how you feel? I know feelings are unique but I'm looking for ways I can tell her I like her a lot ! And how long should you wait before telling her? I know a... (81 words)

He met his ex behind my back and now I don't feel like I can trust him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just found out my bf of a year has met his ex behind my back. He's been split from this girl for 3 years and has had 2 relationships inbetween, both of which he cheated on them with this girl. He told me about it when I was getting to know him, before we got together... (241 words)

Do women ever regret breaking the good guy's heart?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

1 January 2014 (M)

age - Hello, why is it when men meet what it seems a nice women, they start to like they find out that their, exs treated them bad, abuse them, beat them , they say they want to be treated good, but when you do, they dump you an go back to the guy, who beat them, is it, the good guy ... (104 words)

I like women but want to be married to a man. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I love men, want to be with a man, and crush on men. I'm almost 30 and still single and haven't had a real relationship, however. I feel like something is wrong with me. I also love watching women strip on porn sites to get me off. It's easier to orgasm watching women strip ... (233 words)

Why are women so judgemental about guys who want to or have experimented with other guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

1 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it seen as such a HUGE deal BY WOMEN if a guy wants to experiment with another guy? Girls can already agree that that most, if not many guys LIE and CHEAT, is it so hard to believe that they can fuse those two together and TRY, just TRY another guy? Mind you, I don’... (958 words)

Why does my boyfriend's ex still want to be friends with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

1 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, you guys give great advice as I have been on here before, but I am back again. The boyfriend and I have been with each other for like 7 months. Long story short, him and his ex from a while ago had a bad break up. She didn't really treat him right and cheat... (253 words)