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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We hooked up, I fell for him and now he's dating someone else. I'm having a hard time hiding my feelings

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on how to deal with a situation with a guy. I've got myself stuck. At the end of last year I had a fling with a boy who was part of my friendship group. He was much younger than me, so when it started I didn't take it seriously. I treated it like a bit of... (500 words)

Coworker crush.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the situation. I have this coworker who is 31 and I'm 21. When I first started working there, I always noticed him, but not to the point where I really found him attractive. I heard that he had some of the same interests as I did. The same hobby that only a coup... (939 words)

My boyfriend is a flirt and I think he's giving out the wrong signals to people

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3981 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months. I'll start by saying he's very friendly, respectful, charming, funny, and all around just a great person and I really care about him. Everything in our relationship is really great except for one thing I've noticed about him ... (271 words)

Fallen for my best friend, now he is being stubborn and inflexible

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known my best male friend for about 6 years. During this time he's been my rock through ups and downs including tumultuous relationships. I live in a different country from where I grew up (where he lives) a lot. I have often sensed that he felt more for me and has ... (460 words)

I've become friends with benefits with my best friend who has a girlfriend, now I've fallen for him even though I have a boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been living with my boyfriend for almost 4 years, but now Im falling for another guy, and hes by best friend, I really dont know who to choose. My boyfriend and I have been on ok terms, but lately we have been doing ok. Thr thing Is he never takes me out to dinner, never wa... (1641 words)

How can I learn to be more assertive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3192 days ago

24 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to be more assertive - to be able to express my needs, ask for and state things clearly without feeling guilty or being whiny. Please give me suggestions for how to learn and especially how to practice/build up to this so it becomes a habit. Ideally I'm looking for ... (120 words)

After a bad relationship I'm not sure I want to get involved again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3983 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy that I'm developing a huge crush on. He is intelligent and mature and creative, and we have the same passion for performing music and we are going for the same careers. We talk for hours and he says he also has a crush on me, and he says he wants to take me out ... (330 words)

Is it inappropriate for a woman to give fragrance as a gift to a man who she isn't in a relationship with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

24 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it inappropriate for a woman to give fragrance as a gift to a man who she isn't in a relationship with? I had an argument with my girlfriend when she saw a type of aftershave that I wouldn't normally buy at my place and asked where I got it. I told her it was just a gift ... (132 words)

I'm dating a guy and his ex is hitting on me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, I met this guy in an online game, we started getting to know eachother better and we were very clear nothing was to be expected but then things changed. We started to get to know eachother better and shared real life details (the game we both play is second life) he is ... (466 words)

My ex still contacts me and it's hard to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up a year ago. Months we wouldn't talk and others we would. He always initiated contact, I never did. Last year for around 1 month we started hanging out. Somehow we knew that all we were doing was just having sex. However, I still felt something for him so I ... (565 words)

Why do men cheat?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do men cheat?? Ive had thought my partner of 4 yrs was cheating on me ... in November he moved away 50miles to work saying he qohld come bk every weekend. Well he sumtimes came bk bit also only for a day or one nite ans half the day I kept asking if he had sumone else which ... (171 words)

I quit drinking and now my friend is acting weird and I feel uncomfortable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, This is not a relationship problem, rather a freindship related problem. Your views would be much appreciated. Not too long ago I gave up alcohol for good for various reasons, such as I used to binge drink, drink to drown my sorrows, drink when I felt shy, drink ... (480 words)

FWB embarrassed by ED

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend with benefits and he have only met 5 times in the past 4 months, even though we see each other at work everyday, text and call regularly. There were times when he was avoiding me and acted as if he didn't want to have any contact at all but still called a... (455 words)

What do you do when the only barrier between your ex and you is distance and fear of judgement from other people due to age gap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3984 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - What do you do when the only barrier between your ex and you is distance and fear of judgement from other people due to age gap? We both still have obvious feelings for each other after 6 months of dating- in that period we both knew the relationship had an expiry date when... (295 words)

How can I win her over? Should I even try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

24 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Question: A girl I really like recently told me she's going to pursue a long-distance relationship with a guy she's only recently met. Can I win her over? Should I even try? She and I went on three dates. The first two went really well. On the second we made out for a bit. S... (282 words)

I don't like how this girl affects me and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

24 January 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I don't like how much this girl affects me. I met her in October of 2012, and still cannot stop getting that tight throbbing in chest when I see her or someone mentions her. When we met, I was depressed. She saw the cuts on my wrist and showed me hers. To this day I do know ... (256 words)

Can't sleep after giving up medication. Please help?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need some help. For those of you who do not know last year in the summer I was diagnosed with Bipolar. Its a really difficult illness to live with and I can't say a day hasn't gone by where I haven... (929 words)

I dyed my hair and now look so different! Is this possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

24 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Simple question really, I've had long dark hair all my life and never had comments like this once I dyed it lighter. I'm tanned, but I'd say my skin is more olive due to being mixed race and I have brown eyes. My hair reaches just under my breasts so it's quite long and i... (335 words)