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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Found out that my ex had been cheating on me almost the whole time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just found out that my ex partner has been cheating on me with his best freinds wife I have found sext messages on his phone he Denys it we were together for 5 years but broke up awhile ago this is the second partner I have had that's cheated on me what am I doing wrong ... (83 words)

It all changed after my co-worker and I had a drunken night together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a co worker who had been chasing me for a couple of months. I went out with him a few times for drinks after work and we used to talk alot, he asked me out a few times outside of work, but I always ignored his advances and kept it in the friend zone. Had no desire to ... (1124 words)

Guy is touchy feely. Does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy (all stories start like this haha), and I don't really like him romantically but as a friend. He's generally pretty affectionate with people he likes, but sometimes I feel like he gives me extra attention. He would always playfully teasing me, bringing the ... (201 words)

His Facebook has 300 women and no men on it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm having a hard time with my jealousy over my boyfriend and it has caused a huge fight between us and he is really mad and so am I because I feel he does not understand where I'm coming from and insists that it has to do with my previous relationship. I'm really jealous ... (163 words)

Facebook is ruining my long-distant relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like facebook is ruining my relationship. I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for the last 10 months and things are pretty serious with us. I personally do not use or have a facebook anymore because there seems to be a lot of drama on th... (364 words)

My parents sic evangelists and drug testers on me while I'm at college

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went to college for a year and that didn't work out - I couldn't get myself out of bed to go to class, I really wasn't partying much (I went to about four parties the entire year and at all four I blacked out drunk and made an ass of myself and pissed everyone off, so no ... (987 words)

So am I plan B, or am I just wishing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (M)

age - Hi, after two months with out any contact, I got a phone call two thirty in the morning, I didnt know the number, every one knows how often these days do you get a wrong number on a cell phone. Well i had a friend call that number an ask for a friend of his, his name is almost ... (193 words)

When we argue my girlfriend holds her education over my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Thanks for the responses in advance. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 4 years now. We live together. She is ready to graduate with her masters degree and I have recently graduated with my bachelors (I was not accepted into graduate school, though I... (232 words)

My girlfriend's ex boyfriend bothers her and it's starting to bother me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (M) age 26-29 - My girlfriend and her ex boyfriend don't get along very well now. They broke up last summer and she and I started dating a few months ago. They still talk and he is really a dick to her. He says some really mean stuff sometimes, but I don't know the whole story behind their ... (277 words)

Why send me a message, I went no contact with her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, it´s been almost two months now after she dumped me and I went no contact from the first day on. Now she sendt me something via facebook the day after my birthday, but I haven´t read it yet.... She broke up things and it wasn´t very politely or nicely don... (81 words)

How does chemistry work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

28 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to know how it works for example when you're with a girl and you're looking into her eyes and she's also looking into yours you start feeling that chemistry between you and her, my question is, is she feeling it too? Or is something that you feel but she doesn't? Please ... (60 words)

I've been feeling really ashamed of myself about some things and I wondered if I could have some reassurance or honesty

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I am a 17 year old girl and I've been feeling really ashamed of myself about some things and I wondered if I could have some reassurance or honesty. I wouldn't consider myself as slutty because I'm not that kind of person, I have morals, I'm not provocative and I don't ch... (221 words)

I feel his loyalty lies with his friends! Any one else in the same situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 years is the most caring and thoughtful person when it comes to just us - however this soon changes when his friends are involved. I made a huge effort with them including them on my nights out, letting them stay at my house, cooking for them and making e... (198 words)

If I'm the only woman he ever wants to have sex with then why is he imagining doing it with other girls, maybe even ones he knows?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this was a silly thing to do, but yesterday I looked at my boyfriend's search history when he was out. We've been together almost 2 years now and he wants to marry me, have kids with me and I know he's the one I want to be with for the rest of my life. I know he ... (343 words)

Anyone know about student loans in South Africa?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3969 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I don't know where else to ask this, but I thought I'd give it a try here. It's a finance/school question. So I'm starting University next week. I need R32 000 for tuition (excluding books), then another R30 000 for renting a room, all for this year. Only my father works ... (150 words)

I had never seen him in a fight before, and I can't handle it because of my past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have suffered from depression and anxiety since I was a teenager, and I'm now 21. I have had therapy and medication for the past four years, with a little success. When I explained it all to my now ex boyfriend, I thought he understood my mental illness and why I suffer like ... (357 words)

How much is too much in weekends away with friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone help me as a married girl of 32 decide where to draw the line on whats acceptable in marriage in regards to weekends away with friends. My partner has always been selfish and spent new year with his mates in edinburgh. I was working so going wasnt an option. Now 4 ... (190 words)

I discovered that I'm bi? should I come out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a huge crush on my friend. Its my second crush. My friend is a girl, so that means im bisexual. Should I tell anyone or wait? ... (30 words)

My boyfriend never initiates sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (?) age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts and uncles I am having a slight problem with my bf he never initiates sex. We have been together for almost a year and I can remember only about five times when he has and we have sex at least four times a month I asked him why and he said his drive is not ... (144 words)

I'd do anything for this guy even though he hates me and probably was never even a true friend to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I've been struggling with this for a few years now I and just want your guys opinions. I was a freshman in high school I didn't have many friends and was really quiet. Well when I met...this guy I immediately wanted to get to know him. This pushed me out if my quiet ... (558 words)

How am I supposed to learn from my mistakes if the lecturer cant be bothered to explain it to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a feeling that my lectures in college dont like me. I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed but I do work, put in a lot more hours than others with study and attend every single lecture unlike the rest of my class. Last week we had to do an assignment and I got the lowest ... (136 words)

Should I move in with a friend to get away from troubled family situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I'm 20 and I have a friend that offered me to move with him to New York. Even though I only knew him since early September late august, I consider him as a brother. We talk from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. Right now I live in Georgia, and my living ... (97 words)

Please help me keep the girl of my dreams before I lose her for good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I met the most amazing girl when I was 19. She is one of the most intelligent people I have ever met, funny, charming, talented, kind, sweet, and so beautiful - Christ! this girl looks like a Victoria secret model. I just knew she was the one from the first day. I ended up ... (838 words)

Should I go out with a co-worker of my ex? My ex suggested I consider dating his co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3981 days ago

28 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and i broke up a little while ago, and we stayed friends. He left me because he didn't want to be in a relationship right now, since he had just got out of a long term relationship not too long ago. He says i'm an amazing girl, and I deserve the best. He has always re... (155 words)