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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I choose my husband or my boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

22 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice very badly. I'm in a predicament I never thought I would find myself in though I have seen it on the site before. I am having to choose between two men. Each have their strengths and weaknesses. One is my husband, not what you think or how it sounds. Man 1 is ... (558 words)

How does FB determine the suggestions for "people you may know"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

22 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is 36 he loves me so much and i had never seen such a romantic love in my life,i dont go to details and to make a long story short i know he is not that type of person to pay attention to anyone else, we know each other for 10 years he was my classmate and now 1.5 ... (229 words)

I can't get over my ex-girlfriend, her mom and some family members still keep in touch with me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and i are both in the military, we met while serving at the same base and started to date. While we dated we moved in together and had ups and downs like any other relationship but we both knew we loved each other. Ive met her family and she has met mine. When her parents ... (897 words)

Is he getting addicted to porn? How much porn is too much porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

22 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend watches porn everyday while I'm at work. Didn't mind at first but I'm starting to worry that it might affect him eventually. He is off work from 1pm to 6pm everyday. I know sometimes it's boredom and sometimes it's stress relief. He says he has masturbated to it a ... (206 words)

Is he playing hard to get or has he lost interest?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (?) age 36-40 - I've liked this guy for a while, and we've have been speaking almost non stop on facebook for weeks. Then suddenly we didnt speak for a week, which is fine, as we need space, and cant talk to eachother 24/7 but I started to miss him. So I sent him a message saying hey how a... (243 words)

How long is it reasonable for him to keep his profile up on the dating site?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on an online dating site. We have hit it off very well. We talk on the phone everyday and make time to hangout with each other once or twice week because of our busy schedules. He's talked about inviting to his baseball games and wearing his jersey to him te... (135 words)

Do girls do this if they are interested?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

22 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - why do girls do this? I went on a date with a girl last night and she was on her phone for the momst of the time and talking about other guys that are interested in her, talking about previous love interests, and acting cold. she even invited another dude to come hang out? ... (113 words)

I love my wife, but I am in love with her sister

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

22 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I have fallen for her. Six and a half years ago I found out that my wife had cheated on me, prior to this our relationship had been cold for a while and I found myself having lustful feelings towards her sister who used to stay over fairly frequently while her boyfrien... (605 words)

I want to stop masturbating and enjoy sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

22 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I feel very odd and weird but I think I masturbate weirdly.. I've been doing it since I was young as I can remember and I feel odd and don't get pleasure off sleeping with my partner. I have to masturbate on ny own to get the feeling. I lay on ny back and put my Palm on ... (119 words)

Boyfriend likes natural beauty and doesn't want me wearing makeup

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

22 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My new boyfriend doesn't want me to wear makeup. We are very close and have been friends a while before this. I don't wear heavy makeup. Usually eyeliner, mascara, and a neutral eyeshadow as I am kind of pale. My makeup doesn't look tacky, and it makes me feel prettier. He says ... (92 words)

Girlfriend talks about new sex positions that remind me that she cheated on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of two years did the unforgivable sin of cheating on me with my enemy, and dating him in fact. After lots of pleas, I forgave her and tried to look past it Now the problem is, since after the incident, she doesn't have sex with me as she used to, and she's a ... (204 words)

My girlfriend is sleeping with my 'enemy'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Three years ago while I was in my final year in the university I dated a junior girl who just got out of a relationship. Her ex tried getting her back but failed. In the long run, I and the girl split after few months as I discovered I was a rebound. I started dating a... (208 words)

Her training to fight makes me feel insecure.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a fairly new relationship with a woman I adore. Our courtship lasted a bit long but we didn't want to get into a relationship just after a few weeks of admitting we liked each other. After a little over a year, we became happily official. There was always somethin... (238 words)

He put food on my plate, does that mean something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have liked one of my guy friend for three years already. Whenever we played the game truth or dare at social events he would admit in truth that he liked someone. I decided to ask him one time who he liked..and he went completely silent on me. I never asked again. It was ... (224 words)

I want to make amends for my social awkwardness

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Lately I have made many mistakes, one after the other. While some might seem small, this one I can understand my mistake and why she is angry. Someone I once knew walked past me while playing pool in a large group. I would'nt call them a friend, but anyway I was playing and ... (203 words)

First time sex and I didn't bleed... should I see my gyno?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

22 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Please i need an explanation i just had sex with my fiance for the first time,and he knows i am a virgin but the problem now is i didn't bleed at all just excruciating pains...please i don't know if that is normal or should i see the gynocologist about this...... (50 words)