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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What can I do? My new teacher does not like my family. He used to teach my sister.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I went to meet my teachers for my classes and when I did I found out that one of my teachers used to teach my sister. I know he hates my family. What do I do?... (36 words)

Is this a guy thing? Some he met online, some in real life or through gaming. Should it bother me that they flirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3976 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem may sound ridiculous to most, but I'm really hoping some can understand or relate. I'm having problems with my boyfriend and his female friends who he talks to on Facebook. About half of them he knows in real life, and half of them he has met online or throug... (389 words)

Why do girls suddenly distance themselves from a guy, when things seem to be going great?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I have experienced during my dating that sometimes girls suddenly distance themselves without any warning or explanation whilst you are dating a girl. (She doesn't like anyone else and she's single ). Why the sudden change in attitude when things are going on ... (178 words)

What takes away attraction and charm suddenly when you actually want to take things forward!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

27 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello cupid I have read a lot here where people mention they really hit it off until suddenly the girl or the guy becomes distant after two three months. Okay my question is that I understand when there is mystery,we are attracted to the unknown but then suddenly as you kno... (135 words)

Why do you last longer during sex with someone that you love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

27 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello cupid I was wondering why do you last more during sex (no foreplay involved) with someone you love compared to someone you just want to hook up ? why does it differ when you are the same person ? Also it differs from partner to partner as well ? ... (55 words)

I think I have a phobia against vomit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - This weekend me and my boyfriend went to a party and stayed in a hotel. He had quite a bit to drink and as a result of this, threw it all back up when we got back to our room. ( I know this information isn't lovely but there is a point ) I think I have a phobia of vomit. I... (187 words)

I want to enjoy university life and mom is against it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I want to enjoy uni and freshers week to its full potential, but my mother wont let me go freshers week, stay out till late or sleepover at a friend's dorm. I still live at home and i want to have fun at the same time whilst at uni. I'm planning on moving out in my second year ... (84 words)

My first love is back in the picture and I'm torn ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the essay but I don't know what's the right thing to do, I've never been in this situation before and I don't want to make the wrong decision. Last night something that I've wanted for so long happened and it couldn't be worse timing! I used to date this guy over a ... (691 words)

How do you make friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a situation where I'm trying to make friends but failing. My old friends don't have children so I think that is part of the issue. I also live with my parents and they don't like to have people over and when they do, they make rules as if I were a teenager. I'm ... (405 words)

Why does my boyfriend's friend do that? Am I overreacting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my boyfriend's friend do that? Am I overreacting? My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6months now. He seems crazy about me and I'm into him too. Hes really sweet and very nice. All my friends and family likes him and his friends likes me too but one of h... (174 words)

Did he settle for me initially because he couldn't get her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I would like an opinion If anyone has the time? I need to know If I am just plain insecure and low seld esteem or If I have reason! I'll try keep to the point. Got with my boyfriend 2 years ago, when we first got together he was texting other girls, apparantly as 'ma... (243 words)

Worried that my insecurities will ruin my happiness and relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so worried all the time when it comes to my relationship. I've been with my lovely, sweet, thoughtful boyfriend for a year and a half. We are living together for a year - it felt right as we had known each other a year before dating and we both needed to live somewhere. I'm ... (301 words)

Was this saleswoman inappropriate??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was recently in a gas station on the way to work, quickly getting a drink, it was 12pm and I was in my work uniform. I dont often go to this station but it is close to where i live. The woman behind the counter (40-48) approximately I have seen a few times over past... (297 words)

My BF wants me to go to the same college he does, but that's a ways off and I can't say yes.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has asked me if I would go to the same college as him I'm 17 he's 17 and I don't want to say yes because I feel like college is a time for me to be free ad explore and I love him I really do but recently he asked me if I would marry him ever and I said only time ... (127 words)

My ex has his baby mama, why is he trying to figure out what I'm doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am almost a yr out of my divorce. My ex used me and mentally and physically abused me. I was playing all bills and basically holding down the kids, house, and money. He was so lazy that I just got fed up. Toward the end of us going through divorce, he lied on me, tried to ... (324 words)

I've become pregnant and BF and his family have ADHD/ADD running in it. Will my baby also have it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating a guy for nearly a year. He is a good person but he had ADHD and ADD, which was very stressful for me. It could no longer cope with it and it had to end. Let me explain, his condition is quite extreme. He had been diagnosed since he was 10 and he is now 27. He h... (295 words)

NEVER will do anything for a woman unless there is sexual intention involved.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a discussion with a friend today about my upcoming trip, and she said that men NEVER will do anyhting for a woman unless there is sexual intention involved. I told her that I had and have plenty of guy friends. She asked me to think under what circumstances we... (571 words)

BF's weird relationship with his best mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3981 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my boyfriend of a year and 3 months has a friend that he has become really close with in the past 3 months, it's a guy friend and they've become basically best mates. At first they saw eachother maybe once a week to chill and play fifa and stuff but it's starting to get ... (323 words)

I really want to be with my FWB but then I get scared!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I really miss my FWB. We were the worst pairing imaginable and man he could push my buttons but I was crazy about him. after nearly two years, he decided he was finally ready to give 'us' a chance at a relationship and I panicked and cut contact with him. For two years ... (313 words)