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writes:Well, my dad put us on a two and one bedroom apartment low income. But what's happens if the one bedroom opens first, Then does that mean we have to take it? And the rules are only allowed 16 days a month to see my fiancee which is stupid but he wants us to break the rules which does not make sense to me at all. Then again what's my fiancee supposed to do be by herself half the time. I mind as well live together than having a one bedroom. It's like my dad doesn't want us together as a whole or something which is crazy. With my fiancee situation getting worse at home as of right now. We need a place asap. Her mother demanded money from her through her SSI. This whole thing could lead to be my fiancee to be kicked out after the advocate leaves. And we don't have a place to stay yet. What should we do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2014): This question doesn't fully make sense. I think you are on here often criticising your fiancées mother or similar. Whatever's going on, if you don't trust your family for advice and support see someone who is independent and impartial. Maybe an aunt or uncle can help you out, or even a support worker you could be put in touch with? I don't think we have the answers for you here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2014): I wasn't quite sure what you meant by "my dad put us on a two and one bedroom apartment low income". Does "us" mean "you and your dad" or "you and your fiancee" or are you on the waiting list as a single?
And the "rules" you refer to about seeing your fiancee 16 days a month....... who's rules are these? Your parents or her parents or the agency you'll be renting the accomodation from?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 January 2014):
 Your fiancee is over 18 I assume, so if she is staying with her mother why is there such OUTRAGE that she is asking for her GROWN daughter to pitch in?
Why would a couple who are engaged need a 2 bedroom apartment? There is just TWO of you, no children? If it's because you can't sleep in the same room, well then one of you get the couch one of you get the bed.
WHY are you only "allowed" to see her 16 days a months? Why decides that and why?
I remember you other posts and it seems like you and your fiancee ought to have some sort of official guardians or social workers to help out with these "problems" not strangers on the Internet.
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