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Archived questions from: 7 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to be more magnetic to people, some people are, how do they do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Some people have that magnetic quality to them, you know "it" that something that makes people want to be near them, to chat to them or be their friend. They arent always the most outgoing or attractive people, they may or may not be funny or witty, they may be quieter, but ... (266 words)

Do most guys like performing oral sex on women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I'm hoping you can provide me with some insight here! I have been with my boyfriend for a year and he almost never goes down on me. In the 10 months we've been sexually active, he's gone down on me maybe 5 times. I can't figure out why though! The few times I'... (270 words)

How can I tell if he's interested in me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

7 January 2014 (?) age 22-25 - so i really like this guy. im litterally obsessed. he is always nice to me, and the other day, he told another guy who was being rude to stop being rude. he always wants to help me with everything, and in lessons he always stares at me. he playfully hits me a lot ... (119 words)

Why was my cousin's boyfriend stroking my arm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, So this is pretty much a small and quick question. I had people round my house other day sort of a small family get together anyway my cousins "new" boyfriend was round and we all really get on but before they left I was sitting down and he randomly came over and was ten... (160 words)

He suffers from depression and is overwhelmed, is it normal to withdraw completely?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I posted a question yesterday about the man I am dating and him wanting space. It seems that either my question was pushed off the board too fast or know one feels the need to help? This is my first time to a forum like this and I was hoping for some insight. He suffers from ... (182 words)

I missed my chance when I was in hospital, do you think it would be ok for me to contact her at the place she told me where she usually works?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I was having a procedure in hospital and was there for a few days. One night, a young nurse working overnight(with only one or two others in that ward), got very friendly with me, telling me all about herself, her plans etc. What made it very interesting was, that althou... (194 words)

My boyfriend is bringing me down, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am on the verge of leaving my boyfriend of 9 months. It's been a rocky road as he is going through a divorce. There is no love lost but he can't seem to get things sorted out even though his ex has a new family. He is very up and down and was depressed and grumpy over Chri... (316 words)

My friend says she wants to change. How can I help her see the difference between being friendly V flirty towards others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been friends with my best friend since I was in 6th grade. We're both seniors in high school now. But slowly my friend has less and less people who want to talk to her and when asked why they say because she's a kiss-ass and she's a major major flirt. I see both of ... (269 words)

I feel stuck in my marriage. So much is unravelling and my husband seems not to care, while my daughter has big issues to address too. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I of almost 20 years had a fight over petty things mostly by me on Christmas Day. While preparing dinner for us that night he found a bag that I put in the laundry room that was given to me by my friend. It's a nice bag but I do not consider it as purse that I c... (895 words)

He's met my parents, but his parents don't know I exist. Am I not the "one" for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this man 6 months, he's an expat, although he will soon be a permanent resident. He has never missed a Christmas with his family, but this year he didn't go back home for the holidays. His dad offered to pay for this ticket home, but he turned it down. ... (484 words)

So what's next? Should I make a move, since he is a 36 year old shy guy who has never had a GF?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My siblings are trying to match me with a guy they have known for sometime now. They swear he is a gentleman and is intellectual and respectful to everyone. He added me on fb upon learning about me and we began talking for a few months since I am working overseas. We found out ... (499 words)

Feel so lonely at school. Want someone special in my life. What are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I am an open lesbian, and have been single for over a month and tired of seeing people so happy with others. I really want to find someone who won't make highschool so lonely. I'm really love sick, and I walked into high school with no best friends because they moved or was ... (65 words)

My big love versus sex question, plus If what I feel is not true love should I be saying "I love you" to him? .

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I am 20 years old, use birth control and condoms every time and I am perfectly fine with premarital sex. This is a two part issue: I just asked one of the guys I am dating if they equate sex with love, and he said yes. This makes me worried because I do not... (191 words)

My friend is marrying my brother and doesn't want to talk to me anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend started to date my brother some time ago, they started to plan for a baby and she's now pregnant, and they recently got engaged as well. We all spent Christmas together, but somehow things just seemed.. weird. I was looking forward to spending time with them again, ... (458 words)

I want my ex back! How do I get her to fall for me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I want to get back with my ex. I'm now a senior and shes a junior. We got together first back in February of last year. Dated for 3 months, had amazing memories, but by the third month, we had already begin to get physical and had oral sex quite a bit. Also, I had kissed ... (336 words)

Why is it bad to send ex a hate letter?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) age 41-50 - I wrote a 3 page letter telling my ex how much I hate him. He had records of cheating and every time I forgave him and took him back. He's a liar and never changed. I'm so pissed and don't deserve after what I've done for him. So people said don't send it, but why? I don't see ... (81 words)

Why can I give a one night stand oral sex but not to someone I am in a relationship with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know why I am like this but in the past I have not been able to give a guy a blowjob who I am in a serious relationship with - which included my ex husband. Yet I have had no problem doing that with a couple of one night stands since. The problem I now have is the guy ... (156 words)

Is it ok for a married man to text or chat with other woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

7 January 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it ok for a married man to text or chat with other woman? I have been married for 7 years and from the beginning I have expressed to my husband how I feel about this subject after reading a conversation between him and another women about how bad her marriage was. I told ... (260 words)

Do you think he want to use me play games or what

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3998 days ago

7 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear peeps,I want to ask you guys a question concerning my relationship with this guy. I have a friend, a very wealthy and caring. Both of us came from the same country, but he lived in China, I lived in Nigeria. He came back for Christmas and I spent a wonderful moment with ... (171 words)

Is 8 months of dating too soon to ask to be exclusive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - what do you think? Is asking a woman after 8month of dating to become exclusive, being to "intense" or putting too much pressure on it??? I am courious about it....I did it and got dumped...... (41 words)

Brother's best friend wants to marry me but I don't feel that way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My brothers best friend loves me and wants to marry me....i just like him but dnt have feelings for him...now am bewildered cos i have a bf currently,what should i do?... (31 words)

How to fight jealousy after she dumped me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - We have been friends for a long time. I always had feelings for her, more than being friends but circumstances made it impossible to show her my affection. Finally I took a chance, when she needed me the most. But it turned out that she wasn´t able to give me anything back ex... (458 words)

Do I still have a chance at winning a good guy turned bad love back?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - A good guy fell in love with me and pursued me for years. I resisted him and gave him the cold shoulder for years. He wasn't my typical type of guy and was much older. Fast forward now that I am grown and matured and have tested the waters over the years, I realize there is... (324 words)

She's acting a bit distant and I'm afraid she's losing interest, how do I handle the distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

7 January 2014 (M) age 30-35 - I met a girl in early December and we get on great. She lives in my city, but had to go back to her hometown a week ago and she'll be there for at least a month and a half. Our text messages are already getting repetitive and boring and the phone calls too, because we have ... (137 words)

So my brother's friend is two years older than me and he's always really nice to me and laughs at my jokes and stuff, what does it all mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - So my brother's friend is two years older than me and he's always really nice to me and laughs at my jokes and stuff and when I catch him looking at me he holds eye contact for a few seconds and when he does break eye contact he has to tear his eyes away. And whenever we play a ... (154 words)

Should I move across the country with someone I used to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So I recently started talking again with an ex I dated briefly. We only went out for a few months and then broke up because she was too busy for a relationship with her job and also being a single mom. A couple months passed without speaking and then we started cordially ... (307 words)

I feel like he is playing a ton of mind games...but is he just shy with girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - 1. Starting in Oct '11 when he moved in. 2. Took him seriously three months to even talk to me. 3. ALL of 2011 when he DID talk to me the VERY few times, he would pick small stupid fights with me, not even a normal conversation. 4. He gave me his glasses and for me to ho... (1156 words)

Doesn't a guy usually try to grab a girl's boob while kissing if he likes her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - this new guy ive been hanging out, is really nice to me, and comes to see me everytime i ask.. and helps me out with anything i need. He also said he likes me, but everytime were together he wont reallly iniciate the first move even tho we kissed already n he touches me so ... (99 words)

Is he developing feelings for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been friends with a guy for just over a week and its a friends with benefits thing, we've seen each other most nights and he has stayed the night a couple of times. He says things like we should go away for the weekend and offers to take me out etc, He said he likes sp... (232 words)

I can't get over my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello readers, I am having trouble getting over my ex girlfriend. We have been together for 2yrs and over that time we have had our ups and downs. Ultimately though I have been happy but she said she hasn't been. Since our break up I have been seeing a new girl for a month... (213 words)

Would she be offended if I asked her to wear a wig during sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

7 January 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in a relationship for almost 2 years, we're both divorced and not rushing into marriage. she lives with me weekdays being I'm very close to where she works. We have a good relationship and I don't want to rock the boat asking her to wear a wig. She is a natural beauty, she ... (213 words)

My ex is spreading horrible rumors to my friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this will probably be long.... I've just broken up with my partner. We'd been together just over a year but had been close friends for 5 years. I thought I knew him well... Our friendship was incredible, best of friends before we got together, I've been treated very... (421 words)