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Archived questions from: 10 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

One of my husband's New Year's resolutions is to go a month without having sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - This seems a little ridiculous to me but here it goes. My husband decided on his new year resolution to quit drinking and smoking which I am proud of him for doing so. The third one is the one that is ridiculous to me. He wants to go a month with any sex. We rarely have a ... (198 words)

We absolutely have the money for a wedding but I'm not sure its a good investment!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have a wedding question. My fiance and I have waited almost three years to get engaged as I wanted to be able to afford the wedding I want as all little girls dream about their wedding. I am just not sure I can spend six thousand dollars on a wedding and that... (263 words)

Did my poem scare him away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote a poem for a guy I really like. We have had some good conversations but since it was his birthday I decided to write a poem on how great a person he is. The problem is its been about a week and a half and he has yet to respond. The poem said nothing on loving him or any ... (102 words)

Is my friend over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there everyone :) I have this wonderful best friend that i will be referring to as X. X an i have been best friends for over 4 years now. now what happened recently is that we were supposed to go out a couple of days ago on an outing with this other guy friend that we h... (251 words)

How can I motivate my obese mother to look after herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I could use your help. I'm very worried about my 65 year old mother and her weight. She has always been overweight but she has recently retired and is rapidly putting on more weight. She is probably about 8 stone overweight. I live abroad and just came home for Christmas an... (316 words)

What can I do with my cheating ex's love notes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) age 36-40 - So this is my last post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-possible-that-my-ex-said-he.html I'm now over my ex. He's completely dead to me. I think I only hate toward him now. I was reading the love notes and cards he wrote to me which I didn't dare to after he dumped ... (164 words)

My partners wild past is making me feel insecure....am I blowing it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My "girlfriend" is a couple years older then me and she has a wild past, relationship wise. My biggest problem is that I feel insecure about her behaviour, cause she still maintains contact to some of her fromer boyfriends and even to some f***buddies. Especially one ... (301 words)

He said I pushed him into getting married

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - After watching a movie with my husband about a very possessive women who was trying to force her bf into marriage and when he wouldn't she went absolutely nuts (funny movie by the way) My Husband looks over at me and says all women want is to get married and most are pushy ... (164 words)

What would you consider as being needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, what would you consider as being needy? I am just curious about cause in my case, we haven´t seen each other for over six weeks and then I just wanted to spend a couple days with her. It was great for two days and then She claimed that I would pressuring ... (75 words)

Found out boyfriend looks at porn and gay porn. Does everyone do this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - really need some good advice as this problem is really upsetting me . ive been with my partner 3 years and have lived together for 6 months with our baby . i recently found that he had looked at gay porn on the internet. he says hes not gay and says "every one looks" and he ... (167 words)

I know I shouldn't do this but I compare my current boyfriend to my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Okay so here goes .. I was in a relationship with a guy I met online for about 1.5 years which was very rocky to say the least. In those 1.5 years he broke up with several times because of his religious issues (he's a Muslim you see and I'm a Hindu by birth). Everytim... (439 words)

Girlfriend's family is disrespectful of me and I'm not sure how to deal with it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and this has largely been a very happy period of my life. I was conscious when entering into a same-sex relationship that difficulties may arise, and was both surprised and hugely appreciative that my ... (447 words)

How do I deal with my parents' divorce?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents are getting a divorce, and it is the most painful thing I have ever experienced in my life so far. How do I deal with this? Both of them have used me, and I have been the messenger, and while one of them has tried to keep being a parent to me during this time, ... (146 words)

My boyfriend has a lot of female friends and I just can't deal with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts, I am currently in a new relationship (my first relationship) with a great guy. He is kind and attentative and so far we mesh well. We are pretty different types of people in some ways. One of the biggest differences came into light really early on. He is ... (397 words)

My girlfriend acts like she doesn't even care about something that is important to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So Sunday will be me and my gf's one year together. We talked about it in advance and agreed we wanted to do something special on that day to celebrate. I requested off of work and everything. Well tonight, I mention that it feels like forever since I have gotten to see he... (314 words)

We don't ever want to have sex at the same time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 and a half years, and though I don't think we've ever been better, I feel like we could have sex more often. He likes to have sex at bedtime because he usually conks right out afterwards, but when I'm ready to go to bed it's b... (269 words)

I don't wish to lose my wife nor my friend!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I know this is going to sound bad but I really need some help. I have been married for 4 years with two lovely children, and although I love my wife and kids to bits I can't stop thinking about a friend of mine. We get on really well and I would say that I'm ... (101 words)