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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

(More questions from January, 2014)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am a 23 year old virgin stuck in limbo!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

4 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 22 year old virgin from Pittsburgh region of the US, and I have asperger's syndrome. I recently had a birthday and now I am down on myself again because I made it through another year of my life with not even a kiss and it is so upsetting. I feel like this is holding my ... (305 words)

We need to set some ground rules for our trial separation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 16 years older than my BF. We met 9 years ago and our relationship escalated quickly to the point of him moving to Texas from NY and building a house for us and my two kids. We have had our ups and downs. Mostly with his maturity. He was 21 when we met and is 29 now. He is ... (727 words)

I was put on hold for his friends!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I end my relationship with my boyfriend?. He said that he would be with me on new years eve. He said we would have a meal together at his place. He also said that we would spend the whole day together. He contacted me at 11.00am that day, saying that he might be an hour ... (346 words)

I feel so low, I thought he cared but he implied I am a stalker!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Please give a good advice I'm really hurt I thought a guy I worked with for ages liked me and we became close He told me he was unhappy with the girl he lived with and had 'issues' Anyway over time we became close and he gave me the impression that they were basically flat... (190 words)

I still like my ex, but does he still like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex called me last Wednesday to ask me to go for a drink with him. I was surprised when I saw him, as he was dressed in very smart clothes, and I had only ever seen him in quite casual clothes before that. He also told me that he was nervous. I thought we had a nice time. He ... (570 words)

I cant forget he flirted with other girls and now worry how to react to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hii people i m indian teen ...it is about a week for my birthday i m in serious relationship with my bf for 1year and 6 mnths ....v hav our own ups and down ....i adjust myself to solbe issues between us now the problem is 3 months back he spoke to two girls tried to f... (150 words)

He takes up to 3 hours to respond to texts!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone! So me and this guy have been basically dating for a few months (he asked me out about a month ago). We basically have a continuously running text convo, and we respond when we can. It's been winter break though, and lately he's been taking significantly lo... (115 words)

What should I do to make a (deep) relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

4 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there were some girls in my life that i couldn't make good relationship with them. now i'm 28 and feel bad because i'm alone and I think maybe I can't make friendship with girls anymore. first of all sometimes I think what should i talk about with girls to attract or ma... (122 words)

I don't want to seem boring during dinner conversation with my boyfriend and his friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - hello all, tonight i'm out for a meal with my boyfriend, his friend and his friends wife - i really am worried about conversation i'm not a natterer, a huge talker, i prefer to listen. i envy girls who get a bottle of wine a talk none stop for ages i guess i dont have a lot to... (84 words)

Boyfriend of four years drinks, smokes, and gambles but won't admit he has a problem

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

4 January 2014 (?) age 51-59 - Hi everybody, I could so do with some sound and serious advice, I feel as if I am going around in a circle about this. I've been with my boyfriend for going on 4 years now. It's long-distance but we see each other as often as possible, at least I fly out to see him as of... (1260 words)

How can I improve my boyfriend's chances of getting a visa?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a conundrum! My long distance, international boyfriend and I are trying to arrange for him to stay with me in the states for 6 months. He comes from a Nordic country that is listed at one of the top 5 places to live! I don't want to be specific but its a great coun... (344 words)

Our relationship is amazing...but I am scared we will burn out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I started seeing someone I worked with back in August. We only had around 5 or 6 dates between August and November so things were moving quite slow but as we worked together we already knew each other and were quite good friends. He left work in September and me in November so ... (163 words)

Caught the guy I like in a lie about where he was! Should I just ignore him from now on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hii..need alitle advice i started seeing this guy and i sooo like him..and what shocked me yesterday is that i needed him to bring me a phones charger because i had misplaced mine and he is the one who brought up the issue of helping me with his charger so he said hell bri... (220 words)

First time sex was difficult and I lost erection. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

4 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - 22 year old male, recently tried to have sex with my gf first time ever a week ago. I am a virgin, my gf is too a virgin. Its first time for both of us. I thought it might be easy to insert in her but indeed it was much more difficult. We cuddled a lot, then i tried to insert ... (283 words)

I wanted to give this guy my number but didnt...then I found him online!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it fate? I need advice on what to do next and how? Here is the story: I've been sort of seeing this guy, let call him " Jim" but nothing serious. We spent new year's eve together, and we accidentally ran into each other at a bar on new year's day because we have mutual f... (528 words)

Am I wrong to keep this quiet or right not to get involved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I need help working out what to do for the best here. Basically, on New Years Eve one of my boyfriends female friends got very drunk told me that she had an affair several years ago with my boyfriends oldest brother. He was with his current partner (who I'm... (437 words)

My husband walked out when we found out I was pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband walked out when we found out I was pregnant with our second child in August. (We had been having fertility treatment so it wasn't a surprise). He has been suffering from mood swings and depression so the doctor gave him antidepressants. These started to make him... (169 words)

Why am I like this? Am I racist?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I am nearly 19 and still never had a boyfriend. Or been kissed. It could just be because of my introverted personality, my pickiness (cause I like a good characteristics) or because of the whole 'waiting for the right guy' thing, but personally, I'm beginning to think it's ... (315 words)

He is big and I am little!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I consider myself to be pretty fit; I work out 5 days a week in the mornings before work (sometimes gym, sometimes jogging), and many weekends I'm doing some other kind activity whether it's biking or hiking. I LOVE food, but try to limit myself from indulging too much, and ... (349 words)

Does he want me for a girlfriend or just to hangout?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and the guy I like/work with is 25. I found out he liked me from someone else a month ago and ever since then we've been working the same hours and seeing ALOT of each other at work but just having short conversations since we're busy working.He's a shy guy and I'm a shy ... (258 words)

He turns up on my doorstep, yet in 10 years has never invited me into his home. Should I get back with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age - I have know a guy for 30 years. I have two children from someone else and that did not work, so Id re-linked with this guy. We continued from where we left off, it was very natural. He has other children too. I now have a 10 year old fathered by him and we do not live t... (201 words)

Ethical dilemma

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

4 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, It's more of an ethical delimma than Love question. I took my car for a state inspection and I was told I need to pay about $ 2000 to have it pass. My car works fine, for the last year i had it ,i just had to replace tires on it. it may be an old car but it's my t... (169 words)

Is my guy friend still angry with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy in my class who asked could we be friends. I knew that he did not want to be just my friend because he kept suggesting for us to get together for dinner or "chill at his place." We had exchanged numbers and I told him that I would try to make time to go to di... (429 words)

What are women's preferences when it comes to male grooming habits?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

4 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - The recent post about the doctor seeing a man fully shaved got me thinking. What is a woman's preference? Do y'all prefer your man to be shaved bald? ... (28 words)

My father has become even more controlling since my mum was diagnosed with a brain tumor

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

4 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My mum was diagnosed with a brain tumour on the day before Christmas Eve. Since then our family has all been together, trying to support my mum. My Dad is very details obsessed kind of guy. There are all these palliative care nurses, district nurses, doctors, physiotherapists, ... (460 words)