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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do I need to do about the fact that I seem to attract verbally abusive men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - This evening I ended my relationship with a guy who was becoming more and more verbally abusive towards me. I told him I couldn't take any more. He got into the habit of calling me names and making personal put downs about my appearance and following it up by saying he was only ... (230 words)

Don't want to be hurt again. I need some advice to steer me in the right direction please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Four years ago I met the first guy to ever show me proper attention. This led to two painful years of me thinking we were in a relationship and him using me. After everything came to a bitter end and I slowly started to be happy within myself again (after life cruelly put me i... (299 words)

Does my ex still love me? He got a new Gf. Yet now he will not leave me alone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Does my ex still love me ? Hi everyone. Thanks for looking even if u don't read it all. Well basically to cut long story short. I was with my ex about 6 years, we split up due to arguing all the time and we ended up hating each other because of this. We had a techni... (211 words)

I'm his first in everything. How do we get comfortable with each other when he seems rattled by my sexual history?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm just gonna come straight out with it, me and my boyfriend are both virgins but he's never been with any one before. Ever. I'm his first everything, first kiss, first hand hold! And that doesn't bother me at all, we've fallen for each other and I felt safe an comforta... (210 words)

After a year it feels like we're drifting apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year, we live together but here lately things have been going down hill. I feel like we're not connecting like we used. I don't feel loved by him anymore. He doesn't cuddle with me anymore he says he's to tired but i know it's a lie because ... (172 words)

Confused about long term crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am quite distressed due to the fact that the guy N that I am pretty infatuated with did not attend my birthday party when he told me that he would come along and did not keep to his word. I took this at face value and was very eager to see him. When me and my friend were in ... (273 words)

I've moved on, so why do my ex's actions bother me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 18 and about a year and a half ago I split up with my first love who I lost my virginity to and had been with on and off for about 2 years. He was horrible to me, he would finish with me every few months but then use me for sex even though we weren't together while se... (364 words)

I want to spend more time with my girl but her friend doesn't like me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

8 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid I'm dating a girl since 5 weeks at local college and it's going on nicely ! We seem to connect and things are lovely :) I'm a senior so I have classes at different time than her. So when I'm free and so is she, we hang out! However, one of her friend just goes ... (254 words)

Reached a crossroads in my career and am worried I made the wrong decision

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Career decision: I am a young lady with a GS 14 position in the Federal Government. I'm barely in this position for a year when the deputy director approached me with an offer. The offer is to transfer to another branch to help out with this lousy difficult project with high ... (397 words)

Need help dealing with a crush

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

8 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey I really need some help. I'm gay and one of my best friends is bi. We had a mutual crush on eachother, he told me about his but I didn't tell him about mine because he had a girlfriend at the time and I didn't want to be a home wrecker. This went on for 2 years and his ... (213 words)

HIndsight after breakup..I think the man I fell in love with never existed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am struggling to get over a recent relationship break up because I feel as though it was all a lie and his words were just that - words. I used to work with my now ex boyfriend. We were in the same department for little over a year and in that time struck up a good friend... (634 words)

Three months of dating and the honeymoon is over???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m currently in relationship with my boyfriend and we’ve been together for 3 months. We meet up every weekend in the day. I am feeling insecure in the relationship and I am worried the spark has gone. I feel like the honeymoon period is over and the relationship seems ... (403 words)

How slow is too slow in dating? Her response led me to believe she wasn't interested

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

8 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a woman on one of the online dating sites. Our first meet up was on a Monday for dinner. We hit it off pretty good and she said so herself. I asked her if she would like to go out a second time to which she replied "yes". With that I asked her if she wanted to go out ... (248 words)

He can't get it up!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this new guy for a couple of month's. He had no problem getting it up before, but I didn't feel ready. Now that I am ready, he can't get it up. He says he's "never had this problem before", and that he's just stressed out and nervous. What could he b... (81 words)

How can I get over such a devastatingly intense physical attraction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, I would like to begin with a disclaimer that I have absolutely zero intentions of attempting to get close to this man. But somehow, I simply cannot get him out of my mind. Here is the back story: I am studying a very specific trade, where there is a need for fr... (573 words)

Do you think this girl actually liked me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so me and this girl were talking for about a month and we both liked each other but after a month of talking she said "i think we should be friends....i'm sorry" and "but don't be afraid to talk to me" and "I'm sorry if i made you mad or sad". Her reason was because she ... (335 words)

Girls, what is your own preference with regard to your own pubic hair? Full bush, trimmed, landing strip or completely bald?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Moderator, I went through the questions. Most are what about what the other sex likes but I can't find one where the women answered for themselves. I shave myself smooth because I like it that way myself (not because my man requested it). Just wondering what other women th... (136 words)

Is it possible that after all this time the doctor still likes me and wants to see me or is it purely professional?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I apologise if this is long, I am a 35 year old woman and 1 year ago I had a few issues with a dislocated finger that needed operating on, I was referred to a surgeon and instantly I could see he was attracted (staring at me (eyes) or while I was walking away/talking ... (364 words)

It's a confused relationship, is there hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I am openly gau female, but there is this one guy that I keep having butterflys for.we've been broken up for 2 yrs and I miss him like crazy. I admit I have lied in this relationship (he broke up with me because of this) but I wished me could've worked this out. Is there still ... (154 words)

I don't want to get back into a relationship because of his drinking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so me and my boyfriend broke up four months ago. He broke up with me because I didn't approve of his drinking and getting drunk. He kept it a secret and I just happen to find out. We dated for a month and a half, but we texted for a month before that. We worked at the same ... (187 words)

How can he determine that there is "no chemistry" after just two dates? Is that possible?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy two weeks ago and he came up to me and introduced himself. We talked on facebook for a day and he asked me for my number, he ended up calling me and we talked on the phone for three hours. He texted me everyday first and every night he would call me and we would ... (383 words)