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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm so lost. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - A guy I really liked asked me out over text but i got scared and said no. After that i got depressed and as a sort of anti depressant talked to a guy. i fell in love and i was sure he loved me. He didn't. He felt nothing for me, i was just his puppet. To have a fresh start af... (91 words)

I have a crush on my music teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3959 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I know there is a lot of stuff on loving teachers, well the problem is, she is the same gender as I, is this normal? But she is a music teacher, and whenever I perform, she watches me closely smiling and whenever I'm around her I go bright red. I always hang around the music ... (205 words)

I feel furious and totally used!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

18 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm just wondering what people make of this, because I feel so angry when I think about it and I need to off load. 2 years ago now, met a girl while out. It was like love at first sight if you know what I mean. We went on a date and it was like we were made for each, w... (666 words)

He has left me dangling and my life is on hold.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I split up three weeks ago he has serious mental health issues and said he cant sustain a relationship as he coudnt think straight . He said he was going to get help and in the meantime has seen me three or four times and says he loves me however I saw him ... (146 words)

I want to distance myself from a 'friend' who is using me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3959 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I still get very confused sometimes about friendships. If anyone can help with this I'd appreciate it. I've all but finished at a college that is known for being of a very high standard intellectually but also can be a minefield, with people behaving strategically be... (1467 words)

My head is going nuts and he has left me confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote here about a week ago about a guy I'm dating, it isn't serious I don't particularly want it to be serious I just want to go with the flow kind of thing enjoy the moment take things slow. Last night we went out and had a great time decided to come back to mine to chill... (475 words)

How do I let him know his behaviour is not acceptable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I'll try to be as brief as possible because this is complicated. So, I met my current guy two years ago through a mutual friend and very quickly we became inseparable. He was the best boyfriend I ever had, beautiful, romantic, and totally into me. We were in love ... (728 words)

She has a boyfriend but tells me her relationship is falling apart! Should I make a move?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

18 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! A year ago I posted here with regards to the break-up from hell. Well, I can safely say 12 months later that's all in the past Moved on with my life and it's all going well. So there's this new girl. Problem is... she has a boyfriend. Yep, the old boyfriend bomb. ... (521 words)

Threats, fighting, verbal and mental abuse. Is he about to break up? What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid yesterday i had a huge fight with my bf of 4 years, lately he is ignoring me, verbally and mentally abusing me all the time. Its getting difficult even to have a decent conversation with him on anything. Yesterday we had a huge fight since i called him when he... (150 words)

How long should I wait before contacting her? Even though she went "no contact" due to my actions.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

18 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - When she deleted you and you went no contact, how long would you wait to contact her again? We were friends before and I somehow hate the thought of losing her totally.... ( I made a terrible mistake. I talked to her sister about it and I might have told her some things that... (75 words)

Ever been stuck on someone who's bad for you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm stuck on my ex of almost 7 months. He only just convinced me to try the relationship again this week, and he was back yelling at me again within 24 hours. He hung up like always, will pretend not to talk for like 2 weeks but I don't really doubt that hell be back at some ... (165 words)

I cant stand this man but I love him! Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I and my husband were in a relationship since 2010 and got married in 2012. From the very beginning, I and my husband fought almost every week over petty issues. We were in a long distance relationship so thought things would be fine once we move in together. We do have trust ... (263 words)

I lent my online bf money for the trip to meet me...am I being used?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) age 36-40 - I've been in an on-line relationship for 2 months. My bf and I decided to meet, so we went ahead and made plans. But a few days before he realised he doesn't have enough money for the trip. I have agreed to lend him but I keep wondering if I am being used or if I will be repaid ... (61 words)

How much should you tell a new partner about past relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - When embarking on a new relationship how much should you tell your new partner about your "relationship past" I ask this not because I've had a problem with this nor am I embarking on a new relationship but simply because I see on this site that there is a lot of differenc... (367 words)

All the guys I date end up obsessed with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

18 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel like I can't love anyone... I don't know if it's because I'm depressed or what but I feel like I can't be in a relationship. Recently I've been in a lot of relationships and they all seem the same to me. I feel really silly saying this but they all become oddly obsessed... (330 words)