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writes:Hi, just wondering ladies, what you think this means, been seeing some one for about two months, I thought every thing was going great, went out on her birthday, had a great time, then two days later had surgery on my leg, didn't hear from her for four days, I had to call her, she said, she said she was busy at work, an didn't have time to tex or call. Every body says dump her, but she dump me, she said it wasn't going to work out, she said I was like her ex, but her ex, abuse her, I only said nice things to her, flowers on her b.day, poems, a nice b.day present, I didn't bug her, with a lot of calls or tex, didn't want to chase her away, every time we talk she would bring up her ex, its been almost ten years since their, divorce, can a women who was treated bad that long ago, treat the next guy bad because what the other guy did to her.So ive gone no contact with her, since xmas, nothing from her, I tried to be the nice guy again, an I got burned again, is a guy suppose to run, when women says her ex treated her bad, its happened two times the past two years. Thanks
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reader, woodlandpirate  +, writes (6 January 2014):
 Got dumped myself recently after dating her for 8 month. I think I am more a "nice guy" too, so maybe she lost interest facing all my input in the relationship. Or she isn´t sure about what she wants...she is bitter and has horrible mood swings...
A friend of mine gave me one addvice: BE IN CONTROL!
It´s about your happiness, and if the situation with her doesn´t make you happy, move on!Trying to love someone who doesn´t love you back is wasted energy...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (3 January 2014):
 You were only dating two months, things didn't work out. I'm pretty disappointed to here all the responses calling her "crazy" based on the fact that you two broke up. Most relationships don't work out, sometimes people just aren't that romantically interested or the chemistry isn't there. It sucks. It happens. It's no one's fault and she wasn't treating you poorly and you weren't doing anything wrong. You just have to give yourself a little time to mourn, dust yourself off and move on.
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reader, shmily_girl01  +, writes (3 January 2014):
 Hello. She is not the right woman for you and it is clear she does not care and love you. You deserve more...
She may have lots of emotional baggages and possibly not healed but you cannot fix her. She needs to fix herself first before she can have another good relationship. And since she was not treating you right and made excuses why she was unable to visit, call or text you when you were at the hospital that just means she cares less.
Love will just come around when you least expect it...I hope one day you will find the right woman for you and worthy of you.
Be happy...2014 is for you.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (3 January 2014):
When a girl says either:
1) She hates her father or
2) When she's psycho about an ex
Run, don't walk. Do not pass Go, do not collect $200. Run.
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (3 January 2014):
Don't waste your time on this gal. She has wasted enough of your time. She has issues that she hasn't dealt with. To not contact a person who you care for, a friend, or partner after having surgery tells me she really doesn't care for you. Find someone who appreciates you.
Good Luck:)
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