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30-35,
*EdeeIy
writes: I currently have 2 b.f's both a year older than me.I think I should stop cheating and settle for the best...The problem is I love them both soooo much but I don't know which one is the one! well first guy #1 is sweet,funny and makes me feel good everyone approves him and they say his the best one for me,guy #2 is the guy of my dreams but everyone else says if I wanna get my heart broken I must carry on with him,well he used to be a cheater but now he's changed for sure I know it! he even let's me access everything of his.must I go with the one who everyone (friends and family) approve or the one who makes me feel like a real woman?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2014): You are currently the cheater and these guys don't deserve being strung along thinking their in a committed relationship.
End it with both if them, don't get back with either of them unless you're first honest about what you've been up to at least then they can make an informed decision about whether they want to be with you.
But ultimately you should spend some time single and concentrating on yourself, figure out what you want from life, career, friendships and a relationship and once you are ready for commitment then pursue it. If not then stay single. But you can't choose between these guys because you are not who they think you are, put yourself in their position and imagine how you would feel if one of them had been doing this to you.
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (3 January 2014):
Since you're cheating, neither.
You need to tell both of them what you are doing. It looks like you are not ready for a committed relationship yet so until you are you should probably stay single.
Last, I would hesitate to take advice from people who "approve of this one." You are cheating - people with a sound moral compass would tell you that, not which path of infidelity they like better.
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