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writes:This is a question concerning my ex, and our child. Hi Aunts and Uncle's, thank you for reading this, I hope to find some help. My ex and I are on good terms..kind of. We have a two y/o son and he has a 2 y/o daughter. My issue is, I'm so uncomfortable with him putting naked bath tub pics of my son up. Showing genitals and all-in Facebook. He isn't even allowed to have Facebook. But the pics bother me. What should I do? He is not going to take them down. How do I get over it? Any advice?
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reader, like I see it +, writes (30 January 2014):
 Document any threats made to you and take that information to law enforcement to request a restraining order against the person(s) threatening you.
Whether your ex gets justice served or not for his latest act of molestation will be up to the court system, but you can protect yourself, your child, and the life you have turned around by keeping them out of your lives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHere's the situation, I lost my son when he was 6 months old. My sons dad asked me to try drugs (speed) at his house one night while my son was 3 months old. My mom was babysitting him because I needed a break. I was working, providing for him, staying awake all night every night. I was frustrated I needed a night out. One time turned into many. Long story short, I got him back 9 months later and have been clean for a while. Turned my life around, and now have full custody. I want justice served to his dad for being a child molestet. Buy his brother scares me. He had alotta of money and threatens Mr. Says he's going to take me to court if I cause a stir. I earned my child back. I made a mistake. He keeps holding it over my head. I live in Texas. He has no rights to my child, so why am I so scared?
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reader, like I see it +, writes (29 January 2014):
That adds a whole new dimension of 'dangerous and creepy' to this situation, but it also gives you another avenue to resolve the Facebook issue. Take a screen shot of his profile and of the photos he's posted of your son, and show them to his probation officer.
Don't worry about potentially getting him in trouble - he did that to himself when he molested someone underage, and again when he knowingly broke the terms of his probation by making a Facebook account.
Does he share custody of your son? In your shoes I would be very concerned about even leaving my child with this person. And given that he has continued to re-offend, the court system would be likely to see things the same way. If you don't have full custody of your son I would consult an attorney and use this information to protect your child and yourself. Staying "on good terms" with a repeated sex offender isn't important, but your son's welfare is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is a registered sex offendet on probation. I didn't know when I got with him, I was barely turning 18 and thought an older guy was "cool". He's being investigated for sleeping with a 15 year old (again). My sisters friend. He met her while he was at my house playing with our son. I had no idea until the girls mom called. Im in a bind with this man..lost.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (29 January 2014):
If you've asked and he won't remove them, report them to Facebook as inappropriate. If there's a place to add a reason or comment about why you reported them, explain that you're not comfortable with nude photos of your son being posted online. The Facebook site staff should then be able to review and remove them.
Good luck and best wishes.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 January 2014):
 Just ask him nicely. If he doesn't take them down you can request Facebook to take them down.
I think keeping naked photos of kids on the Internet is a dumb idea, in a family album it's JUST fine, but not on the Internet... too many creepers out there.
Um, btw why isn't he "allowed" to have Facebook?
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