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writes:Hi im 17 years old, im very confused because of my Taekwondo coach behaviour towards me. Firstly I catch him staring quite a lot when im teaching someone or he sometimes stay near to me, and then help when I've done something wrong, this is no problem I just don't understand why he needs to watch my every move when he has other students. Furthermore he likes to tease me alot, and finds way to embarrass me in front others. At the end of the class he winks at me sometimes? The crazy thing is he soon to be married in a year, however he still does all the above but making it less obvious. He also ask about boys he's seen me with? However I do know he loves his future wife.I look at him as a older brother, am I reading the wrong signals or no, I can't be in a relationship with him as it will ruin his life, he's lovely but I don't look at him that way. What do you think, does he like me or am I just be stupid? Thankyou:) Sorry for any spelling mistakes, im writing this one my phone and my phone is breaking. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (31 January 2014):
 IF your coach has sufficiently low morals that he/she will take advangage of you.... then there's not a darn thing that we (Aunts and Uncles) can do to change things....
YOU need to know that it's inappropriate for an older (adult) person to take advantage of a young and inexperienced person like yourself... BUT, if you're Hell-bent that you want to be taken advantage of... then there's really not much we can do to dissuade you. YOU will have to learn - for yourself - that you've been "had".. and you can post on here, later, and ssk, "WHA' HAPPENED???" "I thought he loved me"???? ... when, in fact, all he wanted was for you to pull down your panties for him....
Good luck..
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 January 2014):
 #1 Switch teacher or dojo. He doesn't need to be flirting with his student.
Or you need to make a point of ignoring it. If that doesn't make him stop go back to advice #1
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