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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone.My situation is as follows...I have liked this guy for a while and I think it's the first time I've really really liked someone. During this time we have always been flirty, but he got into a relationship about 2 months ago that went really wrong. During this time we were at a party together and spent most of the night talking and flirting, (not just me deceiving myself, he has agreed). He broke up with her a week later and during that time we had been texting most days. This continued at college. The other night we were both our and ended up spending most of the night together and kissing. He then went on to tell me that he really liked me, multiple times which I laughed off, and then asked if I would consider a 'relationship without commitment' giving his reason as exams etc, and because we plan on going to the same uni, see what developed. I didn't reply to this other than to laugh and banter.The next day he texted me asking if I wanted to go round or do something to which I said no as I was busy and then I didn't reply to his next general text. We have not spoken since then apart from at school, which I find quite awkward.The whole situation is frustrating as I really like this guy but neither of us want a whole relationship... All his friends give me banter over the fact they think he likes me and is always defensive of me but he himself gives nothing away. I texted him tonight asking if he felt the awkwardness and to be honest he kind of blew me of and was like yeah I'm not fussed.My head is just a mess- what does he want? Can any male decipher his behaviour for me? What should i do- I don't doubt that I would get into a relationship with him if he also wanted to but I'm scared of giving my feelings away when unsure of the games he's playing. Can anyone give me some advice on what to do? Thank you for taking the time to read, V x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to clarify we are 18 sorry- my settings are a wrong.You are right, he was FwB, or did anyway
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