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writes:About 4 months ago now I ended my relationship with a girl who I really liked, as I didn't feel ready for a relationship at that point, but it affected me more than I thought it would and I can't go a day without thinking about her and regretting it. I wish I'd never have done it. Now I'm in another relationship with a girl who likes me but doesn't try and never goes out with me. So I still like the other a lot. I really don't know what to do, because I don't want to just drop my current girlfriend for my ex but that's exactly what would make me happy again! My question is should I go back to my ex or stay with my current girlfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2014): You may not have a choice to go back to your ex-girlfriend; and don't be so arrogant as to think you have a right to.
She may have moved on, and might not need you bringing drama back into her life. You did dump her; remember? That wasn't just a oops. It hurt her feelings.
Then you have to consider the feelings of the poor girl you have now. What about her? You're going to hurt her too.
Doesn't anyone's feelings matter other than your own?
You made a decision, and you should stick with it. You shouldn't be making comparisons anyway. They are two different girls.
You are very young. Now you have to learn not to just go around breaking girls hearts; and going back and forth.
Your ex-girlfriend might not want to take you back after leaving her, and getting a new one so fast.
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