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*zinaland
writes:my girlfriend and i have been dating for a year now,we hav been living in the same compound up until last month.She relocated in another town,my problem is that sometimes when we hav a phone conversation and i start talking about her kising me through the phone she refuses and sometimes just hang up. When i tell her i love her she says thank you instead of i love u too.This all happened after the relocation a month ago,i dont know what to do i used to trust her but not anymo i think she is cheating.what should i do...Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, M Proops  +, writes (20 January 2014):
Something has changed in her behaviour for you to have written this letter.I think it's quite rude of her to hang up abruptly in your phone conversations.I think you think there's someone else there when you phone her.Next time you phone her have a romantic conversation to see how she answers back to you,if there was another boyfriend there she would have to be very careful with her replies.Unless you catch her red handed I don't know.
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reader, llifton  +, writes (19 January 2014):
 Doesn't sound good. She may be cheating. Or maybe she is hiding you from someone who she hasn't told she has a boyfriend. Either way, something is up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2014): I know you said "this all happened after the relocation," but to clarify...
Is phone intimacy something you two usually did before she relocated to another town? Some girls just aren't into that. They, like me, might find it weird or gross, equivalent to sexting. Also, did she used to say "I love you" back before she relocated?
If you answer "yes" to both, she could be cheating on you, though they're not exactly perfectly incriminating evidence. Try voicing your concerns to her (about her lack of response, not you suspecting of her cheating which would just get ugly). See what her response is. Get her to open up. Depending on how she reacts, it might confirm your suspicions.
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