A
female
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41-50,
*aramala
writes:I was so attracted to guy i met at the mall,he told me he don't have a girlfriend. when i check with his friends they said the same thing. he showed me a picture of a girl and said she was his ex girlfriend and they are not together. he asked me to call him but when i call him he dont answer only msg me. back recently i saw some pictures on facebook with the same girl,i asked him he said she is his ex girlfriend but i saw her in all the pictures with him! i ask him why he lie,he keep tell me he didn't lie thats his ex girlfriend,a few back on his birthday the girl was sitting with him at the cafe his friend post the picture on facebook.i am really confused,i sure if he is lying to me but i love him alot!
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (24 January 2014):
Hi there. It does seem like he is lying.
And hoping you will believe what he tells you about her, when he says she is his ex-girlfriend.
The photos of him and her together on his birthday on Facebook, would seem to prove he is lying.
And the photos were very recent.
And as you said, it was just a few weeks or months back.
And so it was quite recent.
I would be having very serious doubts, if I was in your position, that's for sure.
And why would he show you a picture of this girl?
What purpose did it serve?
Just by doing that and nothing else, it has already put numerous doubts in your mind, and really, you don't know where you stand with him now.
And what he feels about you, for that matter.
I would be taking a backward step, from now on.
If he wants to ask you out, just tell him - "I can't, I am unavailable."
And keep on saying that, make any excuse at all - just say "No."
No matter how many questions you ask him about this "ex girlfriend" he will keep on denying it.
Deny, deny, deny.
So what does that tell you?
For one, that he CANNOT be trusted.
And without trust, no relationship can ever survive.
Trust is so important, and it lays the foundations for any good relationship.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2014): how long do you know him? he can tell you NO , she is my EX thousands of times..but his actions-reality are showing you different. dont believe what you want to believe. do believe in what are you seeing now.
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