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writes:My problem is that my boyfriend and I just recently. Intimate. He loves to kiss and cuddle with me and he loves so much to do oral on me.. but that's as far as it goes. He says he's just a guy who doesn't need to have sex every night that pleasing me satifies him completely. And he told me that we would only probably have sex once every 2-3 days. Should I be worried at all?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2013): Don't worry that is what we most do. I mean 2-3 times a week.Doing it every day is impractical unless you are living together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2013): I don't think you should worry at all.If he's being sexually active with you (although not penetrative sex every time) and he's concentrating on your pleasure then he certainly finds you attractive and I doubt he's finding pleasure elsewhere either. Lack of sex is not always a good indicator of infidelities anyway rather than other behaviours (such as secret phone calls and unexplained absences) and you don't mention any of those.Not all guys want sex every day and 2 or 3 times a week seems fine.The only thing I could think of that might be a cause of worry is that he suffers from erectile dysfunction and only has enough Viagra for 2 or 3 nights a week but even as I sit here and type it - it sounds more and more ridiculous! LOL I'm sure it isn't the case.He sounds lovely - don't worry
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2013): You should be smiles ear to ear. Any man that loves to give oral but does not need sex every night and is satisfied that you are happy is got to be the best arrangement in the world.I wish my boyfriend was more like yours. My man is happy in giving but he wants the same in return. I am not complaining it is still great. You got to realize you have the best of both worlds and you do not have to break out the vibrator or other sex aids when you know your man is coming to give you some fantastic oral. You can truly say you got the good life.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (16 October 2013):
 Why worry? Sounds like you have a catch and a half! Sex 2-4 times a week sounds good to me, and then the oral in between? You're living the life...
No worries!! :)
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reader, desiree075  +, writes (15 October 2013):
I don't think you should be worried at all! I myself don't like to have sex every night either, so if I met a guy who wanted the same thing I would, that would be great. It doesn't mean that he's not attracted to you, especially since he's willing to give you oral sex. Sounds like a gem!
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