| A
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Im 17 and I really like this guy whos almostb19. He knows that I like him and I know for sure that he likes me as a friend. When I told him how I felt I asked if we coild ever go further and he said that he didnt see why not. After that neither of us have brought up anything about feelings. Should I ask him if he likes me or just wait and see what hapoens. (Btw: Neither of us have ever been in a relationship so were kinda awkwaed and stuff) Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2013): There literally is nothing you can do... Like Cindy said you've done all the courting effort you can on your part. But "I don't see why not" is very ambiguous... What does that mean where do you both go from there?? A relationship, dating... Or just taking things to the physical level.... I strongly suggest you tread carefully with this, distract yourself to take your mind off him....If he wants to date you he will take you out- (not invite you over to his for some "intimate" time) I'm sorry but if he doesn't take over the courting, he does t want to date you....If so don't worry... We've all been rejected... I'm clever, funny attractive kind and been rejected SHEDLOADS recently... What's more- ? treated like rubbish... It's their call and their loss, short sighted idiots that can't see what's in front of them! He may like you but just not want a relationship and respect you too much to just mess around.... There are still actually gentlemen out there lol. Good luck anyway ;) Xx
A
female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 October 2013):
 I would not bring this up AGAIN. You already told him that you like him, he already knows that perfectly- now the ball is in his court. I think that , even making allowances for shyness, aukwardness, etc. If he wants something to happen, now it's his turn to set something in motion. You can't be the one to always do all the courting wotk- you have been brave, sincere and to the point already, I'd say you've done your share.
...............................
|
