A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:The first time my boyfriend tried pleasuring me, it was amazing, and I even had an orgasm. He continued after that point, and we both figured the irritation / discomfort I was feeling as he continued was because of over-stimulation. Ever since, whenever he tries to do it again, I get the same discomfort and sensitivity.The thing is, I either have the uncomfortable sensitivity from my clitoris, or I start to tense up and don't enjoy him trying to finger me, even after having sex, which I enjoy very much.How is it I enjoy having sex with him, but when ever he tries anything else, I can't seem to enjoy it?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (26 March 2013):
 It's in your mind! Your clitoris is really sensitive after orgasm, but now your mind is trying to avoid that feeling, so now you're snxious about the entire stimulation. Just relax, enjoy the orgasm, and you have the power to remove his fingers when you're done! In time, he'll know by verbal cues when to instinctively stop stimulation!
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