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writes:I have been having sex with my lady friend for over 15 years and I used to be able to hit the back wall of her vagina because she used to say it hurt when I went to deep we had broken up for a little while she said that she did not sleep with nobody but now when we have sex now it does not hurt her if I go to deep does that mean that she lied and she was sleeping with another personjust some simple concerns what's your info
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2013): Maybe you got smaller??
I think you need to ask yourself why this is even important. So what if she had slept with another man while you were broken up? She did nothing wrong. Maybe she did lie and say she didn't because she knew how fragile your ego is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2013): A woman's vagina can change shape depending on many things, including length of foreplay and her state of arousal. If you've had lots of foreplay, and she's more aroused, her vagina will "tent" larger. It has nothing at all to do with the number of size of penises she's been with.
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (26 March 2013):
Dear OP,
No. It does not mean that. I have the same problem and it depends on what stage during the intercourse the man goes "deep". And also it depends on the sex position.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2013): If a mans penis could change the 'length' of her vagina as it were, then surely yours would have done this a long time ago instead of hitting the end time and time again?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 March 2013):
 I LOVE questions like this.... because they prove - again, and beyond a reasonable doubt - that we guys are OBSESSED with our penises..... AND we believe that intercourse is all about us.....
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2013): About as much as extra sag on her tits over time says there have been people sucking on them. OP bodies change over time, it's that simple. You can't tell anything from a woman's vagina. Maybe she used a 26 inch dildo or maybe your penis isn't all it used to be.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 March 2013):
 person12345 is dead on.
SEX doesn't make a vagina LOOSE or LONGER - it is a MUSCLE, so if she, back when you two had sex and you hit the cervix, was more tense it might have felt differently.
Also she has gotten older, and you know what happens to muscles that aren't getting a work out daily. They tend to flab or sag a little.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2013): There comes a point when a woman can actually relax and there isn't as much pain as before. She is older and her body is changing. Don't expect a woman at 30, or over,to feel the same as she did at 15. Dude, really??? "Penile shrinkage?" Funny response! I sense a little sarcasm there. The intensity of an erection can vary. It's easy to place the blame on your partner; rather than accept it, when it comes to the male ego. That's what this is all about. Your ego!First of all, what did you do while you were broken up? Were you totally celibate? Exactly what does it mean if she wasn't? Why did she take you back and why is she the one under cross examination for the truth? Did she cheat before the breakup? If she did, why did you take her back?First of all, when you break up and restart a relationship, you wipe the slate clean. You let the past be the past and let bygones be bygones. Stop the Spanish Inquisition into her past sexual behavior. You were away for awhile; so "things" don't feel exactly the same. You're starting a new problem and giving her another reason to kick your ass to the curb.During a breakup you have a right to do whatever you please, with whomever you please. Get over it dude!!!We don't exactly know her age or physical development at the start of your relationship, but she may have grown physically over the past 15 years. It's neither here nor there about the size of the inside of her vagina, anyway. Now it's an easier fit!You've been away too, you're lucky the door is still open for YOU!If she was willing to take you back, that's all that should matter, man. All YOUR past sins were forgiven. Now deflate your ego, and appreciate your second chance. Work on the intensity of your erections. Maybe that's the problem. YOU have had too much fun while the cat was away! Hope you deleted all that porn from your tablet and smartphone, she might find it! Just kidding!You probably begged and pleaded for her to come back. I can picture the drooling, whining, and the tears! We do what we have to do to let them know we want them back. Then you turn around and demand that she had to wait for you, not knowing if she even wanted to take you back? Get real!Clear your head, open your heart. You've got enough on your hands in rebuilding your relationship. It doesn't start by criticizing the depth of her vagina. Man, I could almost imagine the letter she could have posted, if she wrote Cupid to tell us:"I think my boyfriend's penis is shrinking, and it doesn't feel like it used to. Should I keep him anyway?" Think about it. Did you take her back for her vagina, or did you want the whole woman? You've won her heart, her vagina is the consolation prize for your past mistakes.Afraid she found someone bigger than you! Guilty hearts ask too many questions! She deserved love when you took it away!As did you.Go love your lady. Bigger V and all!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (26 March 2013):
 No a woman's internal organs are not rearranged from having sex. Many things can cause temporary changes, like hormones.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 March 2013):
 I've read that a man's penis shrinks over time
http://men.webmd.com/guide/life-cycle-of-a-penis
perhaps your erections are not as strong as they were in the past and that's why you don't hit her cervix any longer.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (26 March 2013):
 No. A long penis does not have the ability the push a cervix back, and it returns to its normal form after the sex. A woman's cycle also affects her vagina. A lot of accuse on women sleeping with other men due to looseness, dryness, how it feels or whatever had been wrong. I suggest you not to talk about it again, or lose the sex all together. Especially if you are not a boyfriend you don't rely on emotional connection, trust before you have sex. It could be that you didn't reach your full length because you were thinking a lot after you got back together, rather than enjoying each other.
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