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writes:So a guy I know since childhood has come to my life and started texting me daily, we were always platonic friends or shall I say neighbors, we live in 2 different countries so we texted for 3 months and clashed twice due to his insistance on going into sexual questions which made me feel so uncomfortable. We then met after a fight (I'm the one who always fixes things after fights) and he was acting so arrogant so I told him that no matter what happens we should always be friends,and things are obviously not working out between us, I actually feelt helpless when I said that cause his atttitude was so superior. Anyways he dropped me off and ever since (a month and a half) no news from him, he actually ignored 3 of my texts, the last one was 3 weeks ago where I angrily stated my shock and told him that even if he has moved on with another woman he can still reply and that hes known me all his life. No reply. Yesterday he deleted me off facebook. That was a bit immature. Why would a guy do that especially to a girl who respected him and is a family friend too. Ps: I ceased any contact since more than 3 weeks now and my statuses show that I'm in a happy place in my life. Your thought aunties? Why all this hatred and disrespect? I seriously haven't done anything to that guy.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 March 2013):
 IN the same manner that it is difficult to clap using only one hand... it is difficult/impossible for ONE person (out of two) to have a relationship....
Let this thing go..... and get on with your life....
Good luck....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 March 2013):
 he's mad because you wouldn't play with him the way he wanted.
he wanted sexual things you said no
no sense in being friends if you want different things from the same friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u dear for ur replies, capri I only sugggested friendship after I felt that hiss only intention was sex, I told him repeatedly howw into him I wass, but every fight witnesses me ffixing thingss and him watching, that's why I was fed up and I suggested friendship.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (26 March 2013):
I think it's quite simple. When he when back into your life, he was interested in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Then you end up telling him you have to be only friends. Which should have been frustrating for him.For any relationship to work, both sides have to agree with the relationship. You can't be girlfriend-boyfriend if you want him as a friend. And you can't be friends if he wants you as a girlfriend.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 March 2013):
 Could be his GF has been nagging him to drop you, because she didn't believe the "we are only friends" other wise?
Who knows why honestly. He seems (from what you write) a tad manipulative so really why bother with a reason? He is an ass and that is that.
Let him do his thing and you do yours. Some times friendships lasts sometimes they don't.
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