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He has ignored me so should I bother to tell him I'm going to be near to his city?

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Question - (25 June 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2013)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like a guy who lives in another city. We usually talk on Facebook, but lately, he's been ignoring me. This hurts my ego. The last time I saw him was almost 2 weeks ago, when I traveled near his city for stuff unrelated to him, but we hung out and he was sweet and all, he said he really liked me, etc.

Now, I'm going to travel to a city that's nearby where he lives. I'm going to a concert, so again, this is unrelated to him, but I'd still have time to hang out with him. Should I tell him I'm going? My ego is still bruised over his indifference though, as I don't know whether I did anything wrong or if it's lack of interest(he didn't seem upset that time when we kissed goodbye, and a few days ago he posted something random on my Facebook wall, but still). I don't know how to interpret that, but when people ignore me, I find it awkward to just start a conversation. For that reason, I usually wait until he contacts me.

What should I do? Contact him to casually let him know, or wait until he contacts me? Or just say nothing and go and not see him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2013):

Add a post on your facebook that you are "exciting about going to the concert...." see if he sees it and tells you to visit at the same time. ? If not, let it go.

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