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30-35,
*ady in Love
writes:dear cupids,my boy friend of one year doesn't have the enough time to give me orgasm, we have sex at his parents house, and they rarely leave now, so when they are out we have a quick one where he reaches orgasm and i am stocked wanting more but i don't and i feel so upset with it.menstruation helps but temporarily and the need arise again.should i tell him how injustice it is that he is making me go through?is it my fault that i go in the first place?can u give me some tips to have a quicker orgasm?note: it takes me 20 minutes to get mine and it takes him 12-15 minutes thanks for your help
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reader, Lady in Love +, writes (3 June 2013):
Lady in Love is verified as being by the original poster of the question I don't say that i am upset yet i do say i need another try and that i haven't reached satisfaction yet so he calls his parents and they say theu are on the way! And yes we only have his home, in mine i'm never ever left alone.
I have tryed starting my self infront of him it made him hotter, and i can not do it before i meet him becuase their is a half an our ride to reach him by car, yet i will consider starting my self when he is in the shower or something, and i think i will try to talk to him about it soon
Thank you so much
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (3 June 2013):
Have sex somewhere else. The car for instance...
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reader, Got Issues  +, writes (3 June 2013):
 Have you actually told him that you feel upset that it's all about him and you never get anything out of it? If you never say anything he is going to think that you're enjoying it as much as he is, which is great for him because he doesn't have to do anything at all.
You need to talk to him. Tell him calmly and tactfully that the present situation is unfair and that sex should be about both your pleasure.
Must you do it at his parents' house? Can you not do it at your house?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2013): Maybe you should start yourself. Once you have your 5-8 minute head start it should be easy.
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