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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so I like this girl "J" and i really like her we're good friends and we talk quite a bit i told her i liked her and she said she didnt want to ruin what we have and i want the same as it would ruin alot of things between us as shes my friends twin sister. my friend knows about it as well. anyway she likes "someone" and i think its my other friend as ive heard she and her friends think hes "cute" which is fair enough cause it helps me get over her.anyway this girl who knows us both has been texting me for a few weeks and i know she likes me as shes flirt in the texts and its basically obvious to me and the other day we went into college in our week off to do work and we were there 5 hours and did about 5 mins of work as we just talked and talked. she also knows about me liking "J". shes a great friend and she is cute and i think if i didn't like "J" id ask her out, but I know that when i see "J" at college after the holidays i know my feelings and attention would be on her and i dont want this other girl to get jealous and i don't want to hurt her. things are getting to a point know where she could be getting feelings for me and i want to let her down easy so we can still be friends and talk like we do until i get over "J". how could i do this without hurting this other girl too much?
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reader, SoManyQuestions01  +, writes (4 June 2013):
Tell her that you need time to move on from said "J", but that you do like her. If she doesn't understand, explain to her that while you have feelings for the other girl, it wouldn't be right for you to lead her on. If she understands and is willing to wait, then you've found yourself a good girl. If she doesn't understand, I suggest you move on. Good luck!
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