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writes:My ex girlfriend that we dated for four years left me for another guy, four months later she started sending sms to me just for us to get talking.I ignored all, recently she sent this one which got me very confused . She sent this " hello, how is work. please just try and get me right,its not because I have seen or got into another relationship that made me quit but I just need clarity of vision .please create a place in your heart to forgive me. But, God has plans for both of us and we don't know what might still happen. I have missed you.."..I am confused , I don't know what she's thinking, is she trying to come back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2013): She is thinking about it. The shine is fading off the new relationship, and she is missing you. She is wondering if there is still an option there, and just seeing what her options might be. This will pass. If she gets back with you, it will end again...IMO.
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reader, LAcreme +, writes (19 June 2013):
 I have never been a fan of on and off relationships. If she could do it back then, then she can certainly do it again. I think she's selfish and wants to eat her cake and have it.
Its a clear case of searching for greener pastures, which unfortunately for her, wasn't as green as presumed. So, to your question, yes! she obviously want to come back.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (19 June 2013):
Sounds like bs to me... She left you for another guy now she's trying to smooth it over by making it sound like she just needed "clarity of vision". Maybe that "clarity" is that the other guy isn't as good as she thought he was. Maybe things are bad between them and she can't be single so she needs you there so she can dump him (or in case she gets dumped).
Look, it appears that you'd love to take her back (if you didn't you wouldn't care), but I'd be super skeptical if I was you. She's more than capable of hurting you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2013): "I don't know what she's thinking, is she trying to come back?"
Apparently new guy dumped her so she's looking to weasel her way back into your good graces as a convenient fallback Plan B, and since you've wisely ignored her previous messages she's now invoking the name of God in the hopes that this time you'll be a dumb enough to fall for the bait.
Don't be fooled, I just asked God personally and He told me to tell you to keep ignoring her as she isn't speaking for Him, she's only trying to trick you into falling into her web again.
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reader, Lani702 +, writes (19 June 2013):
 She is definitely trying to get back with you. The real question is, why? Did the other guy dump her and she's running back to you? And, if you do get back with her, is she going to leave you again? I would proceed with extreme caution if I were you. On the one hand, while being broken up with you, she might have realized that you're great, and she has now a great appreciation for what she once had, but took for granted. It might work out for you two,in the end. Or, like I said, she's just running back to you because she has no one else. Either way, remember that a break-up doesn't just happen. She is missing you right now because she deliberately chose not to be with you. It was her choice. So, my advice is to meet for lunch and see how sincere she is. Good luck!
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