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male
age
30-35,
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writes:Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl that am having feelings for but she doesn't know. Anytime am by her side i feel so happy that i joke to the maximum with her and she loves it which makes me feel much more better. She shares her private life stories with me sometimes telling me of her past boyfriends and i also try to advice her on certain issues relating to her and she appreciates it. The problem is that i don't know if i tell her she's going to accept me because some of my friends approached her she rejecting some and mingling with some one attitude of hers is her friendliness with people which gives me double mind of me telling her my feelings. Numerous times i do call her sweetheart which she does reciprocates just for pleasantry sakes. Even when i was about to travel to where am studying which i told her am goin to be there for about 2 months. She told me she going to miss me dearly together with some other girls. When i finally got to where am studying i started missing her which made me call her sometimes boasting her happiness telling me she misses me. If i don't call her for a long time she'll call me and we chat well. Sometimes when i call my friends they'll tell me she's asking of me ceaselessly to an extent that i don't call her for a long time she'll call asking me why i didnt call her for that long. A day arrived that i just decided to pay a visit where she works and it happened that she travelled, due to the fact that i told her on phone that am coming to pay a visit to her workplace she told she'll leave wherever she went to just to come and see me. To my greatest surprise she came and we chatted for a long time. When it was time for me to go she decided to see me off to where am going to take a bus back to where am studying then she left back to where she studying. So dear friends am contemplating whether if i tell her my true feelings she is going to accept me. Dear friends i'll need your candid advice most espercially the females. I told her recently of her ill-side she got mad at me and she doesnt speak to me anymore but later she askes of me through ma friend.aNd if she sees me she pretends not to have asked of me. And she doesn't call any longer and she doesnt pick my calls either. The situation is this . On my birthday she didn't wish me a happy birthday. When i approached and ask her she said she forgot that she has so many things on her mind. She didn't show remorse but grew angry and went because she thought i was angry too with her. Because she made a statement that annoyed me like "that i don't like her'that if i do i will do whatever she says" this she said infront of people and friends. She later told me this the way she normally speaks.that i should forget it. But i couldn't hold my anger and i had to tell her to free my mind. Do you think this girl loves me. Because i want to settle things with her. Anytime i call her for a talk she finds one excuse to not to be present. Please benevolent ladies and gentlemen help me with your candid advice on what to do please and how to tackle the situation thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2013): she definitly sounds like she has feelings for you and she's still thinking of you. But how much feelings, that im unsure of. I sounds like you both have hidden feelings that never surfaced so someone has to be the bigger person and speak and it sounds like you have to be that bigger person. Instead of just coming out and saying your feelings, maybe you should intrege her in some way to make her comfortable and then tell her how you feel. Us girls play a lot of mind games, especially if they are shy. You should tell her how you feel, but in past tense. Tell her , you "felt like this and that before, and i just wanted to tell you than because it seems like you've been acting strange." That may trigger her to tell her how you she feels.
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