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writes:THANKS for reading...but friends i am in a great difficulty...i met a girl on social network site and we did long chats and also did talk on the phone and now it has been over a year of our such relationship but before a couple of months that girl proposed me and i myself thought that i have fell in love with her cause i didn't knew what love really means but now i am realizing that i don't love her anymore i just like her for what she has been with me having no demands and nothing:( but she truly loves me so i just want you to please tell me how and what should i tell her so that she could forget about me and leave me but she shoudnt have any wrong thing in her mind about me and i just want her to be happy cause i don't want to hurt her in any way and if there is no way out for this situation i will ruin my life and make her happy but i don't love her ...please please friends help in getting out from here....
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (19 June 2013):
Well I hope you understand when it comes to commitment and such, there will always be some form of demand or compromise. You can't be expect to keep a single person's life while being together with someone.
If you want to end things the best thing to do will be to be straight with her and listening to what she has to say. If it does not change your mind then reaffirm your position of wanting to end things with her. The most important part is to stop having contact with her when you end things. Being friends with her will only hurt her.
Good luck
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (19 June 2013):
 What would you want to happen if the situation was reversed?
You would want her to be honest with you, tell you that she doesn't love you romantically and that it wouldn't be fair for her to continue stringing you along. You would want her to tell you that you deserve a chance at real happiness with a woman who genuinely loved you.
Be honest with her. Don't continue seeing her. Let her find someone who CAN love her.
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