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writes:Hey everyone,I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 months now,and just last night both of us had a bad dream he was telling me his,and I was reluctant to tell mine,but he made me..I dreamt that I made out with another guy(a guy we both know,not to well but we know his existence)I kissed him and I asked him to stop,so he left and I went after him to say may be I shouldn't hav stopped him but I cldnt find him..Now I dint tell my boyfriend the whole story but I told him there was another man and the name..My boyfriend dint make a big deal out of it afterall its a dream but he felt bad..all I want to know is,is it a bad sign I dreamt about another man?I kinda feel guilty..
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reader, llifton  +, writes (29 July 2013):
 you say that you feel guilty. Usually what this dream means or signifies actually has nothing to do with cheating or desire to be with another person. It's basically trying to convey that you are feeling a sense of guilt over something in your waking life. it doesn't have to have anything to do with your relationship for having feelings for another man. It is just expressing that you have some kind of unresolved guilt in your life that you need to deal with. Do you have any issues with family? Work? Friends? Anything that gives you any sense of guilt at all? don't read too much into the actual context of the dream so much as the overall feeling of guilt.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 July 2013):
 Naaah. That of dreams is a symbolic language, not literal-, it just uses certain images to represent a " story " going on in the depth of your mind, but the story does very seldom , almost never, coincide with the images that you see on your mental screen .
For instance, in your dream, the point seems to be that there is something you have been in need or curious or tempted to do, but you haven't, and you sort of regret not having followed your guts and not having gone after what you wanted , because you let your thinking part prevail.
But this may apply to anything ! It does not mean that you want to kiss this other boy, or any other boy. It could pertain to your sexual sphere- like, wishing to be more adventourous but holding yourself back- but it could be...anythinng, really : from something pertaining your job... to the wish for a new, " weird " haircut !
And, the catch is, that you may not even be CONSCIOUSLY aware that there is something that you want to do but are hesitant, because it is ( duh ) at a subconscious level. And the dream might be your attempt to make it surface , to come to KNOW what is it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2013): You have no control over your dreams...
The only control you have is whether to share it in future with your bf or not... depends on his reaction.
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