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writes:i have been in a relationship for more that five years and during this time our sex life was great. we made sure we saw eachother all the time so we could have sex since we dont live in the same house. But lately all we do is chat and hang out. We havent had sex in months and when i bring it up he says a relationship doesnt always revolve around sex. For the last two weeks i have been hinting that i really wanna have sex but he just says we will but we havent yet. Should i be worried? Is he doing it with someone else? Please help
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 February 2013):
 well it's possible that he's just in a lull.
my hubby and i went through this after he moved in with me as we were renovating our home and planning our wedding... just no sex....
turns out he felt unattractive (he had gained a lot of weight) and was not feeling sexy....
it took a while but we picked back up...
other than lack of sex, is there any other reason you think he's cheating?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2013): there is a likelihood of that happening. if there haven't been any other problems in your relationship it is probably another woman. If he picks fights with you, suspects of you cheating on him, blames you for things... these are sure signs of him having an affair.. or thinking about having one... just read into his actions and observe...
He could just be thinking about it... one way of making him stop is by telling him to be honest with you... don't attack him.. just ask him if he would ever cheat on you.. he will prolly say no.. then tell him if he ever has these thoughts or he feels attracted to someone ... or feels the relationship is going downhill to let you know... that you would be hurt but would respect his honesty and would try to work on things...
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reader, Silius Sodimus  +, writes (4 February 2013):
IT's possible he's found other interests i.e another woman, it could also be boredom? Perhaps your not adventurous enough? You'd have to explain further.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (4 February 2013):
Some guys begin to lose interest in their 30's. I can't imagine it, but it's true.
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