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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This is a bit of an unusual questions. One of the things I want from a relationship is I want to feel sexually special and I want a fuss made of my looks, but I am losing them and I am concerned you would have to be good looking for them to fuss over you physically at the start. The physical appreciation was missing from my last two boyfriend. It is really bothering me. So if you're not that good looking how can you get someone who will make a fuss out of your looks? :S Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2013): I'm actually 26 lol I ask alot of question and put a random age on
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (3 February 2013):
 Don't waste your time, no amount of fuss would be enough to appease you . You could meet someone who is fussing over your looks two hours in a row, and you'd say " yes, but, if he really liked me, he'd fuss THREE hours ". Ho do I know ? because you are worried about losing your looks ... at 22-25. Oh come on. That just does not happen, if any , you are becoming more womanly, more interesting, more alluring,more sensual than a teenager. Unless you have some devastating illness - leprosy or something- in which case I guess bfs fussing over you would be the least of your concerns.
Plus, feeling sexually special is a matter of confidence, not of looks- it comes from inside. You think if they fuss over you, you'll feel sexually special- in fact, it's the other way around, feel sexually special and they'll fuss over you.
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