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female
age
30-35,
*laykelll
writes: There's a guy at work who I've known for a couple of months. He came out of a relationship in December and we were texting and he wanted to be f***buddies but I didn't want that as I wanted a relationship but I knew he had to get over her so I was wary and didn't wanna be a rebound girl. He said he didn't want anything serious then he happens to be in a relationship with someone else not long after and just recently he's been asking alot about my personal life... asking about this guy that I've been dating, like 100 questions literally, even asking if he was more attractive than him and asking if we're still dating like a month after and what happened when I said we weren't still dating and I'm just wondering, why is he so nosey??? I asked him that exact question and his response was 'I'm just interested in your life'... and I said 'dont be' Isn't that a bit weird.. we're not even that close we just texted alot for a short period of time and get on well with eachother and have the same sense of humour. After I said that, he asked me to stay with him during his lunch break (he had someone to talk to there already) instead of me going straight home the other day because he 'enjoys my company'... I obviously said no as I have a life but him being like this, is this not a bit weird???
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 February 2013):
Seems like he is still hoping you will take him up on the F-buddy offer.
He can ASK all the questions he likes, you can always tell him, Dude it's none of your business.
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