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writes: Hi everyone, I have known this girl from college just over a year now and we have always spoken online mostly, not much in person. Normal friendship talk, until last month or two we have gotten closer. Especially last month we have been texting everyday morning to night. I have called her a few times; I like to keep them short although one call was 2 hours which I had to cut short. Anyway I told her I think she's attractive and I fancy her a bit. She just thought it was sweet and eventually I asked to meet up, and she said she was busy. So I left it assuming it's an excuse. Few days later she asks me if I'm free to meet. I said Yes sure so we arrange to meet. I been really busy so I haven't spoken as much these past 2days and I will be meeting her tomorrow. I was thinking it was a casual meet until she sent kiss in text, and I cheekily said u can give me one tomorrow... and she winked and said would u really give me kiss tomorrow ;) I was bit surprised as it seems to be moving quickly anyway what do u guys suggest we could do. Where can I take her out? We haven't planned anything just a time where I'm picking her up from. Also do you think she is attracted to me? Any ideas on making her feel comfortable and relaxed. Just got to make her laugh right? Easy! :) thanks
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 February 2013):
Take her somewhere where you can both actually talk to each other. No point in going to a movie or whatever. Cafe? Park? Just somewhere that you can talk to each other and get to know each other more.
As for making her feel comfortable, just let the day happen naturally. Don't go over the top trying to make her feel comfortable, or she might feel smothered.
On my first date with my girlfriend, we just went and walked and talked in the park for a while, before sitting in a cafe for ages. Somehow that day lasted nearly eight hours, and we've been together for nearly 4 years.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (3 February 2013):
First tip: plan something different; no movie. Make it a surprise. Also don't worry too much about how to make her feel comfortable. It should happen naturally, if it doesn't you guys are probably just not compatible.
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reader, R1 +, writes (3 February 2013):
 Relax! I would either take her for a quiet drink or some food. Don't expect a kiss on the first date despite what she said in the text as a lot of women have a no kissing on the first date rule and will appreciate you treating them like a gentleman. A bit of healthy flirting would be good. Pay attention to her and compliment how she looks when she first arrives.
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