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writes:Okay, I have been going out with this guy for almost 3 months and he's the type of guy every girl wants to be with. And this one girl especially is all over him and she's always talking about how they use to go out and stuff and well I don't know. I am the jealous type and all. But I been trying to talk to him straight forward about it but he doesn't really communicate about it. What should I do? Or should I be worried at all?
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reader, jdxx  +, writes (3 February 2013):
 Honey you probably have nothing to worry about, from what you've said its the girl making you feel uncomfortable not your boyfriend so rather than target him approach her and say simply back off :)
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reader, ihavetoomanythoughts  +, writes (3 February 2013):
 1. It's not your boyfriend's fault that some ex-girlfriend is still hung up about him.2. The girl is trying to make you feel insecure when really, you shouldn't be. You're the one with the boyfriend that she no longer has. 3. If this girl is your friend, she's not a very nice friend. If she isn't a friend, then you don't need to spend time with her and put up with her behaviour.4. Only be worried if your boyfriend seems like he wants to get back with her, and THEN talk to him about it.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (3 February 2013):
 Yea. She will prob go after him and not care if you're involved with him. Talk to him and agree on friend boundaries.
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reader, R1 +, writes (3 February 2013):
 Some girls will try and steal boyfriends. If he likes you and I'm sure he does as you have been together 3months, you have to trust he will stay. If he does go off with her it is his fault and his loss.Jealousy is a very difficult thing to deal with, but remember he chose to be with you so trust his judgement.
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