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writes:My boyfriend last summer had a bet that if I could get a friend to flash me he would pay for a ticket to the theme park close to us.Well I pulled it off I got a friend to text me a picture of her topless and success I win! Well he took it a bit far, wanted me to send the picture to him to verify its her and I said no, I promised I'd delete it. He saw the picture on my phone! Like he took it a bit far asking to keep the picture and me thinking it was a stupid bet. Well this summer he's back at it and wants either 2 pictures of topless chicks or a picture of myself topless and another girl topless, he says it'd be so hot. like he asked me that and I'm in tears over it. He wonders why I think he's bored with me and so insecure when he wants topless picks of other girls! When I accepted the challenge I thought it would be a funny harmless bet because the picture would be deleted but I just don't know any more, he keeps taking this too far, offering to buy another ticket so a friend can come too, probably so he can sit there and drool over her how he saw her boobs then expect us to go strip down into our bikinis and go in the water park with him. I just don't understand what's wrong with just me, he can take all the naked pictures of me he feels like so the 2 of us can go to the theme park(?) together and have a nice day just the 2 of us but noooo that's not good enough! Any who thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2013): You aren't a very good friend are you sending round pictures of your friends - although they are stupid to have sent you them anyway...you obviously cannot be trusted.
Your morals are obviously questionable if you are willing to do this to your friends for free stuff.
He is weird and I think you are even weirder for agreeing to be part of it. Stay away from him and maybe think how you would feel if your friends passed around topless photos of you.
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (7 August 2013):
 Your boyfriend is a creepy loser. Not only should you not feed him any more pics of your friends, you should be wary of giving him pics of you. He doesn't sound like someone who can be trusted with your dignity or your privacy.
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reader, R1  +, writes (7 August 2013):
 This bloke is outrageous! The best advice would be to dump him!! But I know reality is more complicated than that. No more pictures full stop. Your friends don't need pics of themselves passed around (I doubt your boyfriend keeps them to himself), you are abusing their trust by passing their pics on. Please be firm with him.
Maybe look for some 2 for 1 theme park tickets on the Internet instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2013): What a sleazeball. Thank goodness you didn't let him keep a topless picture of your friend (especially if you didn't ask your friend for permission). He sure has the audacity to ask to keep the photo - I would've dumped him right there and the best thing to do is dump him now.
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reader, Intrigued3000 +, writes (6 August 2013):
 I agree with Kenny. This guy sounds like a loser. You're too worthy and too beautiful for this guy. Find someone else who is more worthy of your love and adoration. Buy your own ticket and tell him to go take a photo of his junk so that you can send it to all your friends. He sounds so perverted, he just might do it. Ugh!!!
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reader, kenny +, writes (6 August 2013):
 There is nothing wrong with you atal, your normal. However for many people alarm bells would be ringing with regards to how your boyfriend is behaving. He is being very disrespectful to you wanting you to send pics of your pals topless, quite clearly so he can get off on them in private. Im sorry but what he is doing is so wrong, its just not something you would ever ask your girlfriend to do. My only advice to you is get a new boyfriend and fins someone who gives you the love and respect that you deserve.
Good luck
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