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writes:lately i've been thinking about my sexual oriantion. i don't see guys like i use too. like 1d, i think none of them are hot, and justin biber gross. when a "cute" guy hits on me i throw up (not literally) i have a bf, but its not the same. it really all started 1 yr ago when i had a long term relationship and i had no...... he wasn't fulling my needs. i started lying [no judgement please] and he broke it off. i'm really confused and need help, plus thank you all who answer my question Reply to this Question
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reader, emolost +, writes (6 August 2013):
emolost is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for replying, i have dated two girls, and i was very in love with my first. but i let her burn me a few time before i said enough. i do find girls attractive. really burns me about her, she was one of my best friends. i never thought she would play me like she did. but she did. any hooooo, thank you again and people please keep answering.
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reader, llifton +, writes (6 August 2013):
 don't worry so much about your sexual orientation. you're still very young and it could go any which way in the future.
just take it day by day and see what does it for you. maybe justin beiber isn't your "type" of guy (but then again, he does look like a lesbian, so who knows). or maybe you're into hot, feminine women. or maybe you're into tomboy-looking girls. or maybe you like really maculine guys. who knows? and truthfully, it doesn't matter just yet. you're only just now beginning to learn who you are. take it in stride and don't be so quick to want to slap a label on yourself. who you are now is NOT who you will be when you're 25. take your time and just do what feels most comfortable. you'll figure yourself out in time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2013): Hi there!
I don't think your a lesbian. I guess your just not meeting the right person who will give you that exciting feeling all over again.
There are so many cute guys around but not all of them will give you that excitement. i also have the same problem.
but i am straight. but this is not about me.
Lets talk about you. you never mention if you find girls attractive. or you consider having a relationship with a girl.
So, I don't think so, i don't have any idea how to tell if your gay. I don't have any identity crisis, myself.
Maybe it would be best if you wait for some aunts from here who can help you on how to tell.
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