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Why can't I cum when having sex with a girl?

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Question - (6 August 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2013)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello. This is about not being able to cum inside a girl. Well I'm a 26 year old male who has had sex with about 4 different girls. None of then have never got me to cum and its frustrating to both of us usually. One girl cried because I couldn't. I know I want kids someday and it worries me that I haven't cum inside a girl yet. I'm having this problem with my current girlfriend. I do masturbate a lot and have read stuff saying maybe I grip it to hard and I've gotten used to the tighter grip or is it cause I masturbate daily? Sometimes when I'm having sex with my girlfriend I feel it but then she'll move a certain way then I'll lose it. Should it be this difficult to cum? I cum really easy when I do it myself. And suggestions or advice will be appreciated. Thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2013):

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The thing I'm worried about is I do want kids someday soon and if I can't cum inside her how am I supposed to get the girl pregnant! It's hard to stop madturbating cause I'm addicted to it. I'm not gay! I do find girls attractive lol. Im not circumcized so I don't know if that has anything to do with it.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (6 August 2013):

Stop masturbating. It's difficult, but so is what you're going through. Stop thinking about cumming and just have good sex.

Also, maybe you're not into women? No offense, just a thought.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (6 August 2013):

janniepeg agony auntYou've become dependent on your hand for a release so you don't know what to do when you are inside a girl. It doesn't sound like you are afraid of getting a girl pregnant. I would suggest stop looking at porn and masturbating. This is not uncommon. The girl that cried is taking it too personally and she has not met enough men. If you have to finish off yourself do it. Don't let frustration upset your relationship. The ability to orgasm inside a woman proves nothing. It just means she will not get pregnant and she is able to see a beautiful cum shot up close.

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