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writes:I'm a female, in a 3 year relationship, and masturbate on the regular. 90% of the time I fantasize about my boyfriend, the other 10 I'm watching porn or thinking of something I saw in one. I feel nothing afterwards, there's no emotional bond to anything/anyone I've masturbated to but I also know men are wired completely different which is why I'm curious about this. I'm also wondering because my boyfriend, since the day I met him, has told me he becomes emotionally attached to someone when he has sex with them. I haven't heard this from many men so that got me wondering about masturbation and if there's any emotional connection. So, with that said.....What do you (men) feel for a woman after you've masturbated to her? Let's say, for example, you see a sexy chick on the bus... go home, and then masturbate thinking about her. Now, does this make you develop feelings for her? Does this make you think of her more often, depending on the intensity of the orgasm? Do you suddenly lose what feelings you may have for your current partner if you had a great orgasm? What exactly happens thoughts/feelings wise after masturbating to a female?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2013): No emotions whatsoever, unless it's my girlfriend.Your boyfriend mentioned being attached after sex, not masturbation. These are two different things.
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reader, Trooth +, writes (7 August 2013):
99% of guys I dare say will have absolutely no emotional attachment whatsoever. We are visual, we often have multiple images flashing through our minds during masturbation (and, yes, sometimes during sex). The more images we've seen, the more that flash through more than likely. A lot of guys feel guilty about it but nothing we can do to control it really. We just wish women understood the images in our head are nothing more than visual excitement, no emotion at all. Would it make me uncomfortable thinking that my wife is visualizing other guys or penises, on some level yes, but I couldn't fault her cause that'd definitely be the pot calling the kettle black (I might fear that as a female, her images in her mind DO have emotional attachment though).
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (7 August 2013):
 about like the anonymous female replied. i don't know her, or if i did know her i just like what i see, like her body looks sexy dress ect... no emotional attachment. but on the other hand if i masturbate to my wife's pictures of her nude posing provocative, i find myself more intense aroused every time i masturbate to my wife's photos. after i have masturbated to a woman i don't know, or photo of a woman i don't know, i feel no attachment, no emotional connection period. just relieved. but i masturbate to my wife's nude photos its different because she was posing for me taking the photo of her, and she is not holding back her sexuality for me taking the photo her, that intensifies things. so your answer masturbating to a woman i don't know , no connection, no emotional connection, i forget about her, just like what i see, afterwards feel relieved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2013): I asked my husband this, and he said if he didn't know the woman, he forgot her almost instantly after. If he did know her, it meant he was attracted to her, but didn't necessarily have feelings for her (meaning no emotional attachment, he just liked her body).
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