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writes:Do guys ever change their mind after rejecting a woman, especially if they realise they've almost completely 'read her wrong' first time around? Reply to this Question
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reader, firefly23  +, writes (23 August 2013):
Sure they do, just make sure you don't let your life get away from you as you wait on one guy to come back! Live for you :)
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reader, YoungButNotNaive  +, writes (22 August 2013):
 In my experiences, it depends on the guy, and how long I've known him. If it was someone I just met, it depended on if he decided to give me a second chance after a bad first impression.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 August 2013):
 Sure we do. BUT, we have to be very careful (and some of you women might say, "deceitful")... to assure that you (women) don't figure out that WE figured out that we screwed up when we dumped you... and that we are, now, coming back to you on bended knee.......
As far as "read her (you) wrong"..... don't give it a thought... We men are NOT noted for doing a lot of thinking....
Good luck... (He'll be back!!!!....)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2013): I've had this with both sexes in a non dating / relationship way - couple guys at work I've thought were right k**bs when I first met them; but after a couple months thought they were actually pretty decent people.
So hopefully we all give others more than one chance to show who they are - if not you're only hurting yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2013): Do you mean rejecting a woman before or during a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2013): Yes we do. Sometimes there is a bad first impression on the first meeting. The first date can be awkward. Both people might be nervous.
She may come across too needy or just the opposite. Sometimes if we give it a chance, we learn more about someone and realize if we made a rush to judgement.
Some guys are set in their ways; just like women. If things don't go as planned, they just end it.
I don't know about you, but I don't feel any obligation to pursue people who rush to judgement. They set high expectations that are often unrealistic. They also don't give you enough time to figure out if you'd really like them either.
Don't let the guys who reject you make you feel bad about yourself. They're usually looking for a "type" they've created in their minds. If you don't fit the mold, they flee immediately. Women can attach feelings very quickly.
So eliminating any delay in rejection is more humane.
Some of us are good at telling if we're not right for you; and will spare you the agony. Often, women may dismiss a lot of bad traits in men; that isn't a good practice. Men are less likely to do that.
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