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writes:It's been a while since i had a new girl friend and we have recently gone out like last month but things are giving me bad feelings about this. I have a feeling that she doesnt like like as she used to, well before going out we would be friends but kiss and make out and have feelings but she never haved said yes to me until summer came along. And she decided to say yes but only for the summer and the summer is about to end. I dont know if shes trying to hide me and she havent text me for 4 days straight. She always texts me and Im having a feelingthat shes losing interest in me. SHould i break up with her or talk to her? If i should talk with her what should i say?
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reader, commonguy30 +, writes (23 August 2013):
Best bet is to find a time to talk face to face. Not when shes recovering from surgery though...and just ask her.
Tell her you like her but want to know what this is that you two have going. Dont ask in a needy way, more like in an informative way. She needs to be straight with you or quit stringing you along.
Trust me, there are way too many awesome women out there to be wasting time on one who is just using you buddy. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2013): I think you should find a way to ask her what exactly is going on between you two. If you can't ask it directly, think of a less direct way, insist a little bit more. In my opinion, it's really important that you do this because if she's in fact not interest anymore, you can start moving on before things get too serious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThats exactly what I was hoping for an answer but like fail to do what? What should I do and yeah it doesn't sound like a relationship but I can't see her for now because she got surgery so what should I tell her? Or do?
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reader, CMMP +, writes (22 August 2013):
Your story isn't very clear about what exactly is going on, so I don't know how useful my advice will be.
It doesn't sound like you have a relationship so you probably can't dump her. But you can ask her to do something and if she fails to respond you can stop seeing her.
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