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writes:I met a man through my brother in law. My father recently died and this man is selling the house I inherited. We started communicating through facebook for a week. Last week , he drove three hours to meet me. We had a pleasant time. The weather was gorgeous ,we talked a lot. He is from Old Money and boasted a lot of his and his families successes. I have had success of my own, however did not talk about it. At the end of the night he said I will see you soon. I sent a follow up text thanking him for driving out , and asked him to text when he got home. it is a long drive. On Friday I texted Hey handsome, I hope you have a nice day. he repied Crazy but good , hope all is well. Since , he did not ask me anything I did not respond. He went away last weekend , no communication. Yesterday, I sent a text and said sorry for the delayed response ,How was your trip? No response. Does anyone have insight into this? I wish we were not doing business together now. PLease help.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 August 2013):
 I would just by start blocking his feeds. If you don't hear from him in a week, then yea, I would un-friend as soon as the house is sold.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi this is the op. Can I unfriend him on Facebook?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (22 August 2013):
 I agree with Honey...he came out to meet you but, for him, it's not going to happen, maybe because he's not into you.
Stop texting him, finish up your business with him with no fuss and then move on. If a man isn't into you, communication will be the first thing to go.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 August 2013):
 Pay him his commission upon the sale of the property that you inherited.... and don't expect much/anything more to come of your meeting him....
Good luck...
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reader, babyzbird  +, writes (22 August 2013):
 He is either not interested or is caught up in life at the moment. Perhaps he is struggling with something and he doesn't have the time to respond to you. It's happened to me before.
Keep the communication simple until he shows you a sign he is more interested. However don't hold your breath for it.
Rejection is never easy but try to keep busy and keep your mind off of it. Perhaps put more focus in your future?
Good Luck!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 August 2013):
I have to agree, IF he was keen on getting to know you better he would put forth a LOT more effort.
I would stop texting him, IF he is interested he will get back to you, if he doesn't well, then you know.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (22 August 2013):
I do not think he is interested in you, else he would be putting some effort into replying and more words into his initial reply. Also he would have texted you first.
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