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writes:Please help, I don't know what to think!!!My boyfriend and I finally decided to live together and he took all his things to my apartment. Today when he already went to work I put his things in shelves. He has a lot of supplements and pills, especially diet and sport supplements (total 6 boxes). I never paid attention to it, but today I could look more carefully. So it's mainly diet products, vitamin combination and herb supplements. But one box I recognized from my uncle house, it's a supplement used for improve men's health and vigour but main point is to improve disfunction of erection! (satisfy your women, show your health at night and so on - it's on original box, he has only plastic bottle with product name). I checked in internet and I'm sure, no way about mistake. I thought only man over 40-50 use it! And it's not new box, it's almost over, so he must use it since some time. And he don't hid it! He just put it all together in kitchen.I don't know what to thnk right now:( He is young, still 25, same like me. Ok, he has a hard, stressful work, sometimes can't eat lunch, so use some pills to complete diet. Recently his hair started to fall out and he feel it as a big problem. But we didn't make sex yet, we plan our first time soon, but not decided about day and hour. So why he need it? He always say he respect me and never do anything bad to me. I know he like to try new things, so maybe it's like this, just once to see what is this. But if not? Now I think, maybe he meet someone other, maybe he wanna saitsfy someone, but even when? We spend almost all time together, I think after work he is too tired to think about it, sometimes he fall asleep on the dish during eating late dinner. I know he masturbate, it's for 100% (I have brother, can easy recognize).But it is a possibility, if he only masturbate, to use this? If he really has problem with erection frankly speaking it's not so big problem to me. I love him so don't mind. I think about meaning of this pills. It's really something bad or I'm just too sensitive? What should I think? What should I do now, better ask or talk to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2013): It's ok, I asked him.
He said it's right, this company makes erection support pills too, but he uses different type. It's like a vitamin set for tired people. Well I checked again in web this plastic bottle type and it's really different, only name and main design is same (he didn't have cartoon box). So it seems no reason to worry.
Anyway we start living together now, so I will do my best to change his diet. It's really important thing.
Thanks for all comments, greetings!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2013): Yes, I know it is a bad diet, but he continue it over 3 years. Just type of work. He is not bodybuilder. He is allergic and suffer to hay fever, so always have many supplements and pills, mainly natural, because has a weak stomach. I'm used to it, just never looked carefully. I know he don't use all in same time, only like a mixing. Last time we went to 3-day travel, he didn't took anything. It seems he take it only when work regularly.
Yesterday I couldn't talk to him, but I must ask. Without an argument, just will say I know what it is and why he use. I'm really thinking the worst thing now. I feel maybe there is a things I don't know about him.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (26 April 2013):
 I'm guessing he bought them for the same reason guys buy condoms who aren't currently sexually active. They're bring prepared.
He wants to be ready to perform when it's time. Don't jump to conclusions that he's with someone else simply because he has pills. He takes pills on a regular basis, so it's a normal behavior to have some for manhood too.
It's even more normal if you two are planning on becoming sexually active. He's getting prepared.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2013): Ask him, it's that simple OP, you trust him so he'll be honest.
It sounds like he's a body builder or something if he's taking that many supplements well they can and do give guys ED OP.
http://pennstatehershey.adam.com/content.aspx?productId=10&pid=10&gid=000015
That has a lot of good info on ED. Read up on the subject.
Filling your body full of chemicals, being highly stressed, working out too much all that can cause ED.
Why would he take the pills? Simple OP, being able to have an erection is exceptionally important to us guys even if we don't use it for sex.
It sounds to me like he takes them not just for his erection but for the other benefits too. It is possible that these pills in combination with others he's taking have another effect like promote muscle growth through better blood flow.
An erection is basically just muscles in our penis contracting to store a load of blood in there like a bathtub that keeps it hard.
Well that kind of effect can be useful for muscle gain too as it doesn't just have that effect on the penis but the entire musculature.
Keep an open mind and just ask him. There's no need to be confrontational or worry. Maybe he takes them just in case you want to have sex sometime and he wants to be able to perform for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2013): First of all your boyfriend needs to get of those diet pills. They can be the reason for his problems with hair and erection. He can't eat lunch so he takes pills? That's unheard of. Food is everything, that's how how we keep ourselves alive. And heis obviously doing something wrong.
Also your situation is a bit unussual. You didn't have sex but moving in together? Usually it's the other way around. I think you need to ask him about pills instead of wondering what's going on.
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