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writes:Do you think he is still interested in me?So on Friday night i met up with a guy friend i haven't seen in years. We went to highschool together and recently started talking. Before we met up, we had been texting each other everyday throughout the day. So back to Friday, I went to his house he was having a call of duty party. I love video games. It was his two best friends and one of there girlfriends. So we stayed up till about 12am playing video games, then him and I snuggled under a blanket watching tv. At 1 am we all decided to go to bed he said i could come into his room and sleep on his bed and he'll sleep on the floor. I agreed.he said he would go try to find a tooth brush for me but since i knew I was already staying the night because i don't drink and drive. I told him i had one in the car, he walked out with me to my car. Once we were back inside he put on a movie, as he was about to lay on the floor i said he could lay next to me and watch the movie. We layed there for about an hour and cuddled. Once we turned off the tv, we continued to snuggle with each other, we gently caressed each other in a passionate way. This went on off and on for about 4 hours. We talked and laughed together and tickled each other. It took him about an 2 hours to kiss me. We had our faces close up to each other, until I laughed. He asked me why I was laughing and i said Im just surprised he hasn't kissed me yet. He said it is because he is soo shy. He said he could be so close to me and think that I wouldn't want it. After i said that he totally went for it, which I thought was very attractive. We made out of and on all night. In between laughing and tickling. So at about 7am things got really heated. He began to kiss my neck and lick my breasts. Which all lead to me going down on him. I did not want to have sex with him but I went down on him because I felt bad that I would be teasing him. After i gave him oral sex he said it was the most intese bj he has every received. He said it made his arms and stomach go numb. Weird i know. Lol..so after it was done we layed down next to each other and he keept looking at me breathing heavy and smiling. I was just expecting not wanting to cuddle after, but he wanted to. As we were facing each other he leaned in a layed his head on my breasts and i held his head and rubbed my fingers threw his hair. We continued to cuddle until we finally fell asleep. When we woke up i got ready, and he walked me out to my car. He asked me if I would be going back to sleep since we stayed up all night and i told him no. So he said he'd text me, he texted be back 2 hours after i left. We have been texting still after that. Is he into me? Like did i ruin my chances by giving him oral? I invited him to the beach today and he said he had to do yard work. I also added a friend that i met last night that is a guy. He hasn't responded to my last message. Do you think he's upset that I added a guy? Thank you very much im soo sorry its long.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 April 2013):
 He's not upset that you added a guy.
YOu did not want to be sexual with him but you did it anyway.
Sadly, if you don't hear from him for whatever reason you will assume it's because you were sexual with him. that may or may not be the case.
but being sexual with him (or any other guy) will NOT draw a man to you. it will not bind him to you.... guys can be sexual without the feelings girls seem to need.
is he into you, only time will tell.
did he just want sex? maybe... again only time will tell.
you need to totally back off and let him come to you.
assume it was a one night stand do not wait around for him.
get on with your life.
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reader, katherine2081  +, writes (22 April 2013):
 Its really tough when you don't know whether a persons interested in you or not. Maybe he is shy. I don't think you ruined your chances by what you did it felt right at the time and if that puts him off you are better without him. Ignore the other guy the guy has to get used to you having other friends male or female. Ask him to do something with you three more times if he makes excuses move on keep it simple don't run it over in your mind.
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