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*wesomechic
writes:Okay so I started highschool 3weeks ago and I met thIs guy he's really nice and he's a big flirt well about a week ago we started talking and getting close just a week ago he got a girlfriend but he still all over me and everything but I don't bow why I have never had a boyfriend so can somebody like help me understand
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 September 2012):
 Avoid him, he is trouble. Since he has a GF he needs to quit it and you need to stop responding to the flirting. Because it makes just as bad as him. Don't be one of those girls.. you know, the ones that are disrespectful to the girlfriends to guys you know.
Put your foot down and tell him he need to quit because it's not right.
Flirting back with the wrong can hurt your reputation and your social life.
TRY and put yourself in the GF's shoes, would you like it if YOUR BF acted like this around another girl?
Think, honey.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 September 2012):
 I see where you are getting at :). You want us to say , but if he used to flirt with anybody , and since he's got his gf he stopped with the others , but not with me , that must mean he must really like me right ?...
WRONG.
First, you are not with him 24/7 and you don't really know if he is flirting with other girls. He may be a natural flirt who gets his kicks by flirting non stop by text Facebook phone ...
Second, maybe he is still only flirting with you because you are the only one who still allows him to , or pays him any attention. Maybe the other girls just turn their back and move on when he starts flirting, because they have no time to waste with a taken guy- or they tell him : stop being an ass, or I'll tell your gf.
Or maybe yes, he likes you better than the other girls.... but still, he likes you less than his gf, otherwise he would be with you and not with her.
So, as long as he still is with her, just give him a wide berth and assume safely that he is just killing his time and wasting yours.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 September 2012):
 If he is a boy with a girlfriend who is flirting with you then you don't want that kind of boy for a boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2012): STAY AWAY FROM HIM. Trust me, when you're in high school and he is pressured by so many control freak girls, he will not fess up to say that he flirts with you. Then you'll probably get a bunch of girls going after you socially.
Also, since you're a freshman, y'alls hormones are going crazy, so commitment isn't really the M.O.
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reader, awesomechic +, writes (20 September 2012):
awesomechic is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut he usually flirts with everybody and when he got his girl friend he stopped but not with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2012): Chances are he probably isn't taking his relationship that seriously at his age, and is probably just having fun flirting... Don't worry about it.
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