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writes:my boyfriend supports a woman who is just a friend he hardly ever sees her but gives her $$ all the time. my water is shut off but he wont help me how can i get him to help? he is with me most all the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2012): Well if he is with you most all of the time why is he not helping with the bills or does he not use the water at your place, to drink ,shower ect
Seems to me he is selfish,maybe there is more to this other woman he is helping than you have been told about..
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2012): That's really bad! What kind of a Boyfriend is he? If he didn't have any money that would be one thing, but to give money to a so called friend and not to help you out, that's really inappropriate and inconsiderate.
Of course it's his money, so on this case he can keep his money and his " friend", that would be my decision. What he does is degrading to you!!!
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (20 September 2012):
 His money is his money... Sure it is. But the way he is choosing to spend it, on a girl that isn't his gf, shows how much he "cares" about you. I agree that you should be able to pay your own bills, but a caring partner doesn't let their significant other go without water whilst giving money to support another girl... I'd dump him and fast. It'd be one thing if you are both struggling or he doesn't like to help out with bills as part of who he is, but obviously he does help out, just not you...
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (20 September 2012):
 I agree with SoVery...
His money so his choice what he spends it on.
Is there a reason you cannot pay it yourself?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 September 2012):
 His money his choice
and your choice to leave him if you so desire.
how much money do you need to get your water back on.. usually a water bill is not that high and if you ignore it it takes a while for it to be turned off due to lack of payment...
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reader, Serpico +, writes (20 September 2012):
How about this - how about you take care of your own financial responsibilities and stop wondering why someone else wont take care of them for you?
You bf has his own money. How he spends it and who he gives it to is absolutely none of your business.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (20 September 2012):
 Hi
Perhaps he thinks you should deal with your own bills, if he is with you at your place most of the time then he knows your situation,having no water is quite obvious.I don't see why he should be a 'bank' to either of you but its his money so how he spends it is up to him
If you don't like how he is then finish it,but there are few boyfriends who will pay a womans bills that I know of.
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reader, nat1972  +, writes (20 September 2012):
 I guess at the end of the day his money is his money and he should choose how he spends his money. Perhaps have a conversation with him and ask him could you borrow some money from him if there is money available and pay him back when you get your own money. Even ask him why does he give her money. Have a conversation without getting upset about it.
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