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writes:I got drunk 2 nights ago and went to a guys place. He's someone I liked, and have met a few times, hes come over, and we've talked before and flirted. He asked me over and we kissed, he rrespectd me and we didn't do anything that night except sleep. The next morning we messed around and pleased eachother but didn't have any kind of sex. Will he lose interest b/c we slept in the same bed and messed around? or am i still a mystery? i told him i wont ever give him sex but at one point i said lets have sex, but laughed it off and said no no no! and we didn't...what do u think? will he lose interest? did we move too fast?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2012): If all you do is mess about, go to his and share a bed....then he will see you as nothing more than a conquest.
He's probably thinking, 'next time she'll definately give me what I want' - so back off, stop going to his place,sleeping in the same bed and in effect, teasing him.Your giving out the wrong signals.Getting drunk makes you vulnerable so modify that when with him.
Don't be a conquest, be a girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2012): yes he could lose respect and interest.. you are walking on thin ice.. just don't put yourself up that way..
Rule #1 don't get drunk and go to sleep in a guys house
Just try not to get him to bed even before you become friends.. that will save you from any harm... try to become friends with him and learn about him.. then decide if you want to be with him..
Forget about what happened.. apologize to him .. and say you were drunk so you acted a bit out of line..
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reader, Deagan +, writes (28 February 2012):
 If you're moving at the rate you're going, he's going to lose interest.
I might be old fashioned, but you are moving way too fast.
Guys like to do the chasing. If they conquer what they wanted easily, they lose interest. The whole chasing thing is almost like a game to them.
I remember my guy friend going out on a date with some chick who was really into him, whereas this was more casual for him. She put out on their first date, and when I asked him about it, he wasn't interested in seeing her again. Why? "She was too easy."
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